"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The worst thing a guy can say to another guy

pecoso

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Yes, this is about girls, but I have to vent/laugh at myself. I'll be brief...

I had a friend who moved about 1200mi. away. Anyhoo, he has a GF here. I hung with her once (with some other friends), and she/I hit it off pretty well. I didn't try anything because I wouldn't take my friend's girl (had that happen to me and I wanted to run 'em both through). She calls my friend and I end up talking to him. I said I was hanging out with his girl (jokingly, of course). He then proceeded to give the biggest insult a guy can endure...

"It's okay. I trust you with her."

:trouble:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Juan and only

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I don't know what you're smoking but please stop.
 

Aquatico

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Last time I checked, trust was a good thing to have between friends.

I guess it'd be a little different if he said "I trust her with you", but it sounds like he meant that he wouldn't expect you to pull something.
 

pecoso

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LOL, guess that came out wrong...

The fact the he trusted me wasn't the gest of my point. Notice that I said I'd never take someone else's girl. My point was more that he trusted me because, at the time, I couldn't get a girl to save my life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Juan and only

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Your last post didn't make much sense:confused: what was the insult...??? in fact, what the **** is this thread even about?
 

VoiceofReason

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...wow, bro.

Just...wow.
 

L777

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lol...that musta been gutting. but your big pimpin' now right?
 

pecoso

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Not too bad, actually. I've DJed a few girls, even mocking one for sleeping through class. Turned down a coupla love notes (yes, love notes). One gave me her number and I've never talked to her before.

Phone numbers: 5-6 (only one turned me down)

Now, if I only do something with those numbers... :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lets_do_this

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lol. That would only hurt if you had low self esteem.

Because you would have taken it in another translation:

Are you saying im ugly and have no game that you can trust me around your girl? Because you know I have no chance whatsoever anyway?

Yes, that would hurt. But only because you probably really lack game anyway.

As you said...

I've DJed a few girls, even mocking one for sleeping through class. Turned down a coupla love notes (yes, love notes). One gave me her number and I've never talked to her before.

Phone numbers: 5-6 (only one turned me down)

Now, if I only do something with those numbers...


Mocking a sleeping girl is not DJing. :D
 

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No, the worst thing a guy can say to another guy is "nice d!ck"!:D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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