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The World is AFC: the grocery store

WestCoaster

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OK, since I got on this site a few years ago I started recalling my own AFC days, seeing how the world is so AFC, and how so many guys just sit back and take it from women.

Most painful AFC viewing is this huge grocery store in my town, one of those bag your own places. So many guys hanging on so many homely women who are treating them like dirt.

Tonight I'm in line bagging my groceries and this one biotch is with these TWO guys -- she's a woofer deluxe -- and these guys are laughing at her putdowns and how she's ripping the sh-t out of the male species. I'm getting sick to my stomach.

As I'm bagging this one guy says to the other guy, "She's laughing at us. Women were put on this earth to laugh at us." The other guy chuckles like, "We're all just fu-ked AFCs!"

The one guy looks at me for a response and I say nothing and give no facial expression. He didn't like that. He wanted me to join in his AFC parade.

A good lesson in fighting your own inner AFC (if you have one) or to brush up on DJ skills: Go shopping by yourself and look at all the sorry-a$$ AFCs getting pulled around by homely and mean women. It's sick. It will convince you to stick to your DJ ways!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by WestCoaster

A good lesson in fighting your own inner AFC (if you have one) or to brush up on DJ skills: Go shopping by yourself and look at all the sorry-a$$ AFCs getting pulled around by homely and mean women. It's sick. It will convince you to stick to your DJ ways!
or just turn on a tv. we are bombarded with AFC sh!t all day everyday, its actually quite fantasmagorical.

when my eyes were first opened i was angry and basically in disbelief, now its familiar and im used to it, with the odd "holy sh!t now thats AFC" here and there, with a little chuckle to myself.
 

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Painful reminders!

Witnessing the AFC world can be frustrating because I've been there.

Unfortunately I spent most of my 20's as a frickin' AFC. I'm older and a little wiser today, but that era still pi$$es me off as I should've been scoring hot babes left and right and been Mr. Cool. Instead I was a BBOI (Blithering Blob of Insecurity).

Luckily, now I see it, recognize it, acknowledge it, and dismiss it!

Thank God for sosuave -- this is literally one of the only beacons of information out there detailing how men should treat themselves and women. It may be the only one out there. I've seen a lot of other crap, but nothing that matches this site.
 

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It's funny how after you figure out whats REALLY going on you notice the AFC'ness all around you. One of my old best friends fell in love with my sister, he was her 'best mate' but was just hanging around giving her attention hoping she'd eventually realise he was the one.

She's going out with a bit of a fcuk head now and even 2 years on my mate still has this raised eyebrow look on his face when i mention the 2 of them. Like he's still hoping. I'm trying to help him.... I EVEN TOLD HIM ABOUT THIS SITE......but he just hasn't got the motivation to read anything. I feel like slapping him. And my other friend just sits around playing computers all night in his den of a room and then complains theres nothing to do and he's bored and needs a women, as if ones going to fall though the roof in the middle of GTA!!!! Get out and SORT it OUT!!

Grrrr.

I remember untill i was 18 i was some kind of DJ without really thinking about it. I was so into doing my things like skateboarding, music, going out on mission with my friends and it's only been recently i've thought ' damn, i need to start getting women' and after a couple of years of AFC worries i found this site and It's made SO much sense and helped me sort my head and gameplan out.

I can't understand why everybody doesn't find this place and immediatly go ' WOW! THis is what the crack is!!' INstead people sit around waiting for things to just happen on there own.

Double grrr.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The world of AFC is often much worse than frustrating.

One of my best friends married his jealous, controlling, bitter, friend-stealing, life-long girlfriend. I never get friend time without having to drag her ass along.

One afternoon while I was at my friend's place just before he got home from work I was sitting on his couch with his then-fiancee watching some trash TV, her pet addiction. My friend walked in the front door with his briefcase after earning money all day and said hello. She said to chump-friend without taking her eyes off the TV or pulling her hand from the snack bowl, "Oh, the washer just finished, could you put the clothes in the dryer?" I almost cried as my friend put down his briefcase and went down the basement stairs to put the clothes in the dryer.

Mrs. Chump gets her sick pleasure from giving me relationship advice. She asked me if I'd asked my girl to be exclusive yet. When I told her no, that I was still too busy dating other women, wifey told me that I'm going to blow it with her. That's wifey's favorite line when she hears one of my DJish stories from her hubby.

BTW, my girlfriend proved herself to be solid gold again recently when I had this married pair over at my place and I took them out for afternoon fun. My girl, who is blindly outgoing and positive, paired herself up with the wife and they talked about girly things as they kept to themselves for a while. My girl actually obliviously ignored direct putdowns from the jealous wife. I actually got a hour of friend time while my girl merrily put up with this poisonous couch-urchin. I'm marrying this girl.

My biggest fear in life is that wifey is going to say something stupid to my girl someday.
 

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crazy story mister al. God damnit i can't believe how people put up with that sh it. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life, than be chained to pu ssy with those "benifits"

Personally i dislike going to grocery stores immensly. I usually don't even see ANY interaction going on at all. Its just a mass of anxious people grabbing groceries as quickly as possible to avoid friendly contact. Or maybe thats because i'm up here in the boonies of new england.
 

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MisterAl: it is always best to conceal your intentions with women. do not tell that wifey b|tch about your lifestyle. hell, don't even tell your friend anymore. honesty is a blunt instrument that often bloodies more than it cuts. tell people only what they want to hear.
 

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The more AFC this world becomes, the easier it will be for me to attract HB's.
 
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