The WorkPlace is the Ultimate Aphrodisiac

[mickdollaz]

If you are working at any location with a relative abundance of 20 something females, you are in an ideal environment for dating.

1. it's far better than taking a class (yeah, whenever that happens again), because you have a chance to interact far more frequently than you would just sitting in a classroom

2. you're part of the same "team" or "in group" and you are actually achieving results.

3. working generates a little bit of stress or anxiety which is experimentally proven to boost sexual arousal.

4. it's a far smaller in group than being part of the same university or even taking the same class in a huge lecture hall

5. the chance to offer a ride to a co-worker or go out for a bender on a weekend offers ample opportunity for dating and casual hookups (if you're into that).

6. almost every "social circle" is created from your job. In that sense, social circle game and work game are one and the same in many cases.


This explains why so many guys are having it tough these days with dating.

1. they are working from home. Yeah, no hot female co-workers. As a matter of fact, no co workers at all!
2. they are working in predominantly male occupations (no, I'm not saying you should choose a job at walmart vs a cushy engineering gig, just pointing out facts).
3. the only areas of growth aside from retail, are tech and health care. The former is nearly all male, and the latter offers almost no chance to interact with co-workers, especially after work, as hours and shifts are so long.

So yeah, if you are absolutely prioritizing dating, work at an actual, physical job site with ample numbers of 20 something females. Otherwise, it's gotten really, really rough...

 

[Georgepithyou]

Most guys meet their girlfriends through work or school, daygame/nightgame and online are still the outliers.

It's much better and easier to find one at work. Vut if your like me and most of your coworkers are significantly older it takes that away.

 

[SW15]

I don't view the loss of the white collar office workplace due to COVID as a big loss from a mating standpoint. I don't miss an office environment from a socialization standpoint that much either. I've sniffed out too many beta males and feminists as co-workers over time. Some minimal socialization is ok in an office, which does beat greater work at home isolation.

I graduated college 15 years ago and have worked in office settings in most of the years since that time. In white collar office settings, it's dangerous to mix one's mating endeavors with one's workplace. Sure, #MeToo came around in the late 2010s, but even back when I graduated 15 years ago, it still wasn't considered a good idea. If a workplace relationship goes sour, one of you is going to have to look for another job. Interviewing for white collar jobs is a royal pain, even when the economy is decent. I wouldn't even want to see a co-worker after one failed date, let alone a casual bang that has run its course or an extended monogamous relationship.

It's possible to get a date with an attractive co-worker once she's put in her two week notice, but likely by then she's boxed you into a friend-ish zone. It's not the most productive use of time.

The better play at the workplace is seeing if your female co-workers have available friends.

The likely best play at the workplace is women who work in the same building but at different companies. I've gotten numbers and dates from doing these types of approaches.

Going to a fitness class or boutique fitness studio class is often a better play than approaches of women in the same building but different companies.