"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Women of bigneil (officially rated)

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Here are the top rated girls I dated since I turned 40. They are in chronological order 2011-2016. I loved all of these women. I personally photographed 11 out of the 12 girls here.

I dated one girl every 6 months on average, and they were from 6 states over the past 6 years. I personally don't care what readers personally think - their ratings are already standardized. Saying you think they are below what the ratings are is exactly the same as saying you think they are above what the ratings are - it is moot.

The average girl is rated 85.25, which for over 10 years I've always said. My average girl is about an 8.5. Do note how raunchy photos rate much lower in the Smart and Trustworthy category, meaning this system encourages women to be lady-like.

NOTE - Only two rated in the 99 percentile.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If this is legit you got some balls. How much was their monthly allowance? You got good taste. Any ass shots?
 

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If what we think doesn't matter and there isn't a question in the thread--no disrespect--but what's the point of the thread?

Unless your intention is showing us your conquests without any feedback or only to receive validation? You know better, Neil.
 

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third from the left, top row, is the best one imo (runner up, third from the left, second row from the top)

leftmost on the botttom row looks somehow familiar, maybe she's famous
 

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I'd say I'm not jealous but god help me, I'm jealous. as I sit here married, s*xually frustrated and pissed off, I'm jealous.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If what we think doesn't matter and there isn't a question in the thread--no disrespect--but what's the point of the thread?

Unless your intention is showing us your conquests without any feedback or only to receive validation? You know better, Neil.
Ya I've always thought it's pretty out there to have people rating your girls looks. The thought would never cross my mind because why do you care what a bunch of weirdos on a rating site think?
 

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wheres the pics
 

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Link no longer working, but having seen some of bigneil's women in the past, I believe him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I love when the same men who say money doesn't mean anything ask how much these women cost. Here are the top women sorted by attractiveness.

 

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Here are the girls sorted by top combined score (5 girls made the top 11, and as it turns out, the last 3 girls I dated all rated 99, though note one only had 10 votes and it came out lower in a 20 vote sample).


 

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Looking for some validation neil? I have ask like others, what is the point of this thread? Don't think anyone has ever doubted you have dated attractive women.

Just curious, how many were exotic dancers? or any sort of performer?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Another MAJOR factor guys need to remember is that MONEY matters more and more the older you get.

You can be in your 20's or 30's and play the hot surfer beach bum role and get HOT women. But once you hit 40 you start looking like a loser and your options will decline sharply. If you want HOT women well into your 50's and 60's then you're gonna need MONEY.

And of course.. my catch phrase: There is no way around it!!
 

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Let's not forget your testosterone will be lower, your sex drive will disappear
Ha, I've yet to see an older man on this forum admit that his sex drive has declined. It's a matter of pride, I guess. Actually, I think the fact that your sex drive lowers as you age is one reason why guys in their 30s usually do better with women than when they were younger. They're less thirsty and less desperate. When I was around 17, I would get horny if the wind blew.

Not sure what the point of rating these pictures are though. If this website rated some chick a 4.0, would you dump the girl? As long as you find her attractive, what's the difference?
 

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Lol at the picture of the girl in the graduation outfit. I'm all for dating younger, but it's still kind of funny. :)
 

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Another MAJOR factor guys need to remember is that MONEY matters more and more the older you get.

You can be in your 20's or 30's and play the hot surfer beach bum role and get HOT women. But once you hit 40 you start looking like a loser and your options will decline sharply. If you want HOT women well into your 50's and 60's then you're gonna need MONEY.

And of course.. my catch phrase: There is no way around it!!
Let's not forget your testosterone will be lower, your sex drive will disappear, you will be more jaded and stop taking women seriously, and your taste for expensive whiskey will go up. The guys who doubt the importance of money are sex driven 19 year old kids on this forum.
I understand the thinking behind the posts, but ultimately it's one dimensional thinking that will confuse new guys.

Money helps, but just because you have it doesn't mean girls will notice or care. You guys keep equating money with somehow girls 'seeing the light' and 'suddenly falling in love in with you'. It never works this way. It's the WHOLE PACKAGE. Your height, your hair, your friends, your education, your clothes, your conversation, your importance in society, all these are way more than important than 'money.'

New guys come in here and think 'wow, ok, it's all about the money. OK, work to get money, get money, get money, get money and girls will suddenly realize how awesome I am. Then they are rich in their late 30s and early 40s with no family and girls don't care. Then they get depressed and do something drastic.

But hey, at least they are rich right?
 

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New guys come in here and think 'wow, ok, it's all about the money. OK, work to get money, get money, get money, get money and girls will suddenly realize how awesome I am
Lol, this forum has been through all sorts of phases. Sometimes it's been all about your GAME, sometimes it's been all about your status, your social proof, sometimes about how alpha you are, about how big your muscles are, your bodyfat %, your looks, or how big of a jerk you could be. Why not go through a money phase too?

Truth is, there is no magic pill.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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