"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The woman I messed up with. Need Advice.

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I wanted your advice about a women I found online. She emailed me being
interested and we had a great conversation the first time and things were
clicking and we have things in common and she is gorgeous.

Well, I texted her the next day throughout the day, and that went great, she was
all over my phone, calling me sweet names and sending me a photo. that night we
only texted because my phone was almost out of minutes for talking and I told
her that. I said I would fix it the next day.

The next day, I did not text her at all thinking it was not a big deal to text
every day. She texted me that night calling me a liar and a cheater and all
these names. she did not believe me and continued to call me names and that I
was bs to her. I responded that I would show her the phone and she had a lot of
nerve for that after I spent all that time talking to her and texting her. She
said she was sorry and that she had been lied to a lot before. I was furious
with her for being so mean and for flipping out on me.

So, I told her she would have to make it up to me. She asked what her options
were. I said she would have to sleep with me. She called me more names and said
I should grow up. I said she should find another guy and not to text me. I felt
like to liked to flip out on guys because she viewed them in a negative way,
and the phone problem was not such a big deal. I wanted to see what she would
say to that. I know i never should have said that, and didn't mean it that way.
She took it as she needed to sleep with me before she ever knew me. I did it out
of playing with her because she flipped out on me.

Should i have forgiven her? Should I have ended right there when she flipped
out?

I texted her two weeks later because I really feel like i messed up. I like the
girl a lot. I said i didn't mean it and that I wasn't like that. I wanted to
clear that up hoping she would invite herself back to me like the beginning.
But she won't. She thinks I am just some LMFAO trying to get laid. Is there anything I can do or say? I used many of the suave
principles in the beginning that worked well on the phone when she liked me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So wait....you haven't even met this girl?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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