I wanted your advice about a women I found online. She emailed me being
interested and we had a great conversation the first time and things were
clicking and we have things in common and she is gorgeous.
Well, I texted her the next day throughout the day, and that went great, she was
all over my phone, calling me sweet names and sending me a photo. that night we
only texted because my phone was almost out of minutes for talking and I told
her that. I said I would fix it the next day.
The next day, I did not text her at all thinking it was not a big deal to text
every day. She texted me that night calling me a liar and a cheater and all
these names. she did not believe me and continued to call me names and that I
was bs to her. I responded that I would show her the phone and she had a lot of
nerve for that after I spent all that time talking to her and texting her. She
said she was sorry and that she had been lied to a lot before. I was furious
with her for being so mean and for flipping out on me.
So, I told her she would have to make it up to me. She asked what her options
were. I said she would have to sleep with me.:nono: She called me more names and said
I should grow up. I said she should find another guy and not to text me. I felt
like she liked to flip out on guys because she viewed them in a negative way,
and the phone problem was not such a big deal. I wanted to see what she would
say to that. I know i never should have said that, and didn't mean it that way.
She took it as she needed to sleep with me before she ever knew me. I did it out
of playing with her because she flipped out on me.
Should i have forgiven her? Should I have ended right there when she flipped
out?
I texted her two weeks later because I really feel like i messed up. I like the
girl a lot. I said i didn't mean it and that I wasn't like that. I wanted to
clear that up hoping she would invite herself back to me like the beginning.
But she won't. Is there anything I can do or say? I used many of the suave
principles in the begining that worked well on the phone.
interested and we had a great conversation the first time and things were
clicking and we have things in common and she is gorgeous.
Well, I texted her the next day throughout the day, and that went great, she was
all over my phone, calling me sweet names and sending me a photo. that night we
only texted because my phone was almost out of minutes for talking and I told
her that. I said I would fix it the next day.
The next day, I did not text her at all thinking it was not a big deal to text
every day. She texted me that night calling me a liar and a cheater and all
these names. she did not believe me and continued to call me names and that I
was bs to her. I responded that I would show her the phone and she had a lot of
nerve for that after I spent all that time talking to her and texting her. She
said she was sorry and that she had been lied to a lot before. I was furious
with her for being so mean and for flipping out on me.
So, I told her she would have to make it up to me. She asked what her options
were. I said she would have to sleep with me.:nono: She called me more names and said
I should grow up. I said she should find another guy and not to text me. I felt
like she liked to flip out on guys because she viewed them in a negative way,
and the phone problem was not such a big deal. I wanted to see what she would
say to that. I know i never should have said that, and didn't mean it that way.
She took it as she needed to sleep with me before she ever knew me. I did it out
of playing with her because she flipped out on me.
Should i have forgiven her? Should I have ended right there when she flipped
out?
I texted her two weeks later because I really feel like i messed up. I like the
girl a lot. I said i didn't mean it and that I wasn't like that. I wanted to
clear that up hoping she would invite herself back to me like the beginning.
But she won't. Is there anything I can do or say? I used many of the suave
principles in the begining that worked well on the phone.
