Has anyone ever read that story its called the "The wife of bath" written by Chaucer. Old school.
Recently me and my friend who is very philosophical (sophism, Aristotle epitcurus, etc.) and intelligent where having a conversation and he told me he had gotten a girl. I asked him all the usual questions, where did he meet her and stuff like that. So I was talking with him and I told him
me: becareful her intrest doesnt go down, make sure u have all the power
him: no remb reading the wife of bath where the woman thought she had all the power becasue the man let her think that but the woman then in the end gives the power to the man.
me: I dont think it works that way, a woman needs to know ur the man and that u have the power
him: yeah but u also gotta make em jealous sometimes, you know woman wants to know that you have your pick and your options too, so its always good that way.
me: I see, but I dont get how letting the woman think that she has all the power is any good.
him: It is
me: Yo u know what is gonna keep her intrest level high?
him: yeah she even told me, we spoke about it, that if she feels like she has u under her control then its not good, she doesnt like it.
me: okay, how long do u talk to her
him: Oh man ive been speakin to her for like hours everyday like from 10 to 4 in the morning.
me: realli, what do u guys talk about
him: everything, thats when u know that a chick is worth it, going after and ur time
me: damn thats long
him: You know there not that many people that I consider my equal, but her she is diffrent, I consider her my equal.
him: yo she even told me that I shud teach my friends how to game, that i know what im doing
me: Ic
him: yeah man she is wifey type
Know this is very confusing for me , cuz i have learnt everything i have from these sites, my friend here had no person or sites to tell him these things im just curous from where he cud have leanred all this from. Maybe its like u guys where sayin back in the day we knew how to be men and my friend knows how, but i just dont know where he leanrt it from. it must be learnt.
First of all, how could letting the woman think she has all the power be a good thing, thats counterproductive but it seems to be working for him, I saw them today and they were all lovey dovey. This site teaches so many techniques on how to appear like u dont care or that its my way or the highway, my friend here feels like its a bad strategy and feels like that letting her think and feel like she is the one in control but she is realli not, it is him then its good. Like today he said to his gurl " hey i realli want to go to the poetry competition"she said " yeah sure go ahead" then he said " but I want to hang out with you" then they stated to talk about somehting else. So right here what my friend did was that he asked her and told her "Hey i realli want to go to the poertry competion" he said it in a way like he was asking her permission, but im sure damn well he knows that if he wanted to go he would have gone anyway. So he is letting her feel like she is the one in control cuz he is asking her. why let her at least think she is in control why? He also said that he is gonna quit smoking cuz she told him. I said
me: yo dude never let a woman control u
him: No im just letting her think she is, im always gonna smoke on the low, what she doesnt know cant hurt her.
Hmm again why let her think she controls u?
Secondly
Why would a woman tell a man, what would keep her intrested, like she might discuss dislikes and likes but why would she say "hey i dont like for me to know that i have guys wrapped around my fingers." Its odd, woman usually keep their secrets hidden and most dont even know what keeps them intrested and attraced there usually clue less to what they want. Whats up with that
Thirdly
Then he said that u gotta make a gurl jealous at times he said
him: yeah u know i have gurls givin me hugs and they give me cigs too and i try to make her jealous
u gotta be the one liek she thinks that has the pick.
This makes sense with what the board has taught me so far. Making her jealous shows ur not afriad to get her mad and raises her intrest level in you and having more than one options shows u are a man of high demand, (which he is, he doenst play the role, he is the senate of the student council of our college). He also said
him: Yeah she also tries to make me jealous,but it doenst work
Now this caught me off guard cuz i didnt really understand or visualize or picture it in reality that yes gurls will try to make u jealous too. So how would a regular man be able to go and distinguish when a female is trying to make you feel jealous. So I thought about it, maybe when she tries to get attention of the other guys and flirts a little but yet at the end of the day she still comes back to you and calls u honey and has a high intrest level in you, maybe thats when u can tell that she was just doing all that just to play games with you. Im confused on this jealousy topic bcuz i wudnt be able to recognize when a woman would be trying to make me jealous yet still know wheter or not she likes me still. When guys play this trick on gurls they know how to tell yet it still gets the best of them. The best way to fight it is by ignoring it and not batting a wink when she tries it on you. But being able to tell when she is trying to get you jealous or her intrest level is dropping then is a little challenging.
Fourthly
My friend over here seems to know what he is doing, i dont know where he got the information from but anyway, he said he speaks to her from 10 to 4 in the morning. Wtf isnt that liek a death sentence right there, its like telling her yeah woman i got nothing better to do other than talk and yap like her girlfriends. Yet she doesnt think of him as a friend, they kiss makeout etc. I think that talking for so long kills the whole vibe and exicitment and fire of attraction.
Fifthly
He said that when u can talk for so long (on the phone or anyway else about just anything) thats when you know a chick is worth it. Now i was surprised to hear this too. Not bcuz i didnt know this, but bcuz he had a few conflicting things and then he comes out and says this. Yeah his thinking is that the woman has to be good enough for him not the other way around. So thas good, he doesnt have to qualify himself she has to qualify herself. the worth factor, of her worthiness of him is whats important.
Sixthly
Then he said "there not that many that i consider my equal but her somethings diffrent, her I consider her my equal." Again this surpirsed me, he said, there not that many i consider my equal, this site has taught me to always assume the higher role, be the diamond, alpha all that stuff and here my friend is "being" this. But then he siad she is diffrent and he consider her the equal doesnt that automatically take away his edge. I remb reading that a relationship is based on unequality, one person usually has to be "better" than the other person, usually the guy, thats why u never see chupms and hot women, or butt ugly men with gorgoeus women (exceptions). Me and my friend where talking and he said "Being ignorant of the diffrences is the key to equality." So now that she is his equal he can no longer be better than her, he treats her like equal material not inferior material. When i talk to gurls i usually like to picture them as inferior to me, stupid and retated and confused and flawed. But my friend said she is equal. hmm why?
Sevnthly
My friend told me that his gurl told him "yeah u shud teach ur friends how to game, there clueless" wtf. Which gurls like to know that she was being gamed by the man she is with. I never met a woman who doesnt want her man to say that fate and luck brought them togehter not pimp skills. but we all know fate is dead and luck is on her side.lol. of course u need to pimp her, but why would u tell her that. makes no sense, why would a woman want to believe that she got gamed and not the "oh he swept me off my feet and my prince blah blah blah" she is not a hoe, very conservative trust me and super stuck up, She is pakistani, no offense but these gurls are invincible to game well almost hehe. She is religous and very moralistic.
So in conclusion to all u playas and me, we might conclude "ahh ther must be something wrong with the gurl" but take a minute and try to see why my friend did and said these things. I dont know why maybe u guys can help me out or explain it to me. But one lesseon i will bestoy on you. NEVER LET ANOTHER HUMAN BEINGS PRESENCE OR ACTIONS OR WORDS DE-RAIL AND MUTILATE YOUR FRAME OF MIND. Its all tied in, I came here and made a big ass post bcuz what my friend said bothered me cuz it conflicted with what i have leanrt her and after typing all this, i made a discovery also. I shud have just gone my own way and not bothered what the other playa was doing.
So FINALLY can u guys plz explain to me why my friend did all these things that go agianst the dj bible and still get romantic with the gurl thx
Recently me and my friend who is very philosophical (sophism, Aristotle epitcurus, etc.) and intelligent where having a conversation and he told me he had gotten a girl. I asked him all the usual questions, where did he meet her and stuff like that. So I was talking with him and I told him
me: becareful her intrest doesnt go down, make sure u have all the power
him: no remb reading the wife of bath where the woman thought she had all the power becasue the man let her think that but the woman then in the end gives the power to the man.
me: I dont think it works that way, a woman needs to know ur the man and that u have the power
him: yeah but u also gotta make em jealous sometimes, you know woman wants to know that you have your pick and your options too, so its always good that way.
me: I see, but I dont get how letting the woman think that she has all the power is any good.
him: It is
me: Yo u know what is gonna keep her intrest level high?
him: yeah she even told me, we spoke about it, that if she feels like she has u under her control then its not good, she doesnt like it.
me: okay, how long do u talk to her
him: Oh man ive been speakin to her for like hours everyday like from 10 to 4 in the morning.
me: realli, what do u guys talk about
him: everything, thats when u know that a chick is worth it, going after and ur time
me: damn thats long
him: You know there not that many people that I consider my equal, but her she is diffrent, I consider her my equal.
him: yo she even told me that I shud teach my friends how to game, that i know what im doing
me: Ic
him: yeah man she is wifey type
Know this is very confusing for me , cuz i have learnt everything i have from these sites, my friend here had no person or sites to tell him these things im just curous from where he cud have leanred all this from. Maybe its like u guys where sayin back in the day we knew how to be men and my friend knows how, but i just dont know where he leanrt it from. it must be learnt.
First of all, how could letting the woman think she has all the power be a good thing, thats counterproductive but it seems to be working for him, I saw them today and they were all lovey dovey. This site teaches so many techniques on how to appear like u dont care or that its my way or the highway, my friend here feels like its a bad strategy and feels like that letting her think and feel like she is the one in control but she is realli not, it is him then its good. Like today he said to his gurl " hey i realli want to go to the poetry competition"she said " yeah sure go ahead" then he said " but I want to hang out with you" then they stated to talk about somehting else. So right here what my friend did was that he asked her and told her "Hey i realli want to go to the poertry competion" he said it in a way like he was asking her permission, but im sure damn well he knows that if he wanted to go he would have gone anyway. So he is letting her feel like she is the one in control cuz he is asking her. why let her at least think she is in control why? He also said that he is gonna quit smoking cuz she told him. I said
me: yo dude never let a woman control u
him: No im just letting her think she is, im always gonna smoke on the low, what she doesnt know cant hurt her.
Hmm again why let her think she controls u?
Secondly
Why would a woman tell a man, what would keep her intrested, like she might discuss dislikes and likes but why would she say "hey i dont like for me to know that i have guys wrapped around my fingers." Its odd, woman usually keep their secrets hidden and most dont even know what keeps them intrested and attraced there usually clue less to what they want. Whats up with that
Thirdly
Then he said that u gotta make a gurl jealous at times he said
him: yeah u know i have gurls givin me hugs and they give me cigs too and i try to make her jealous
u gotta be the one liek she thinks that has the pick.
This makes sense with what the board has taught me so far. Making her jealous shows ur not afriad to get her mad and raises her intrest level in you and having more than one options shows u are a man of high demand, (which he is, he doenst play the role, he is the senate of the student council of our college). He also said
him: Yeah she also tries to make me jealous,but it doenst work
Now this caught me off guard cuz i didnt really understand or visualize or picture it in reality that yes gurls will try to make u jealous too. So how would a regular man be able to go and distinguish when a female is trying to make you feel jealous. So I thought about it, maybe when she tries to get attention of the other guys and flirts a little but yet at the end of the day she still comes back to you and calls u honey and has a high intrest level in you, maybe thats when u can tell that she was just doing all that just to play games with you. Im confused on this jealousy topic bcuz i wudnt be able to recognize when a woman would be trying to make me jealous yet still know wheter or not she likes me still. When guys play this trick on gurls they know how to tell yet it still gets the best of them. The best way to fight it is by ignoring it and not batting a wink when she tries it on you. But being able to tell when she is trying to get you jealous or her intrest level is dropping then is a little challenging.
Fourthly
My friend over here seems to know what he is doing, i dont know where he got the information from but anyway, he said he speaks to her from 10 to 4 in the morning. Wtf isnt that liek a death sentence right there, its like telling her yeah woman i got nothing better to do other than talk and yap like her girlfriends. Yet she doesnt think of him as a friend, they kiss makeout etc. I think that talking for so long kills the whole vibe and exicitment and fire of attraction.
Fifthly
He said that when u can talk for so long (on the phone or anyway else about just anything) thats when you know a chick is worth it. Now i was surprised to hear this too. Not bcuz i didnt know this, but bcuz he had a few conflicting things and then he comes out and says this. Yeah his thinking is that the woman has to be good enough for him not the other way around. So thas good, he doesnt have to qualify himself she has to qualify herself. the worth factor, of her worthiness of him is whats important.
Sixthly
Then he said "there not that many that i consider my equal but her somethings diffrent, her I consider her my equal." Again this surpirsed me, he said, there not that many i consider my equal, this site has taught me to always assume the higher role, be the diamond, alpha all that stuff and here my friend is "being" this. But then he siad she is diffrent and he consider her the equal doesnt that automatically take away his edge. I remb reading that a relationship is based on unequality, one person usually has to be "better" than the other person, usually the guy, thats why u never see chupms and hot women, or butt ugly men with gorgoeus women (exceptions). Me and my friend where talking and he said "Being ignorant of the diffrences is the key to equality." So now that she is his equal he can no longer be better than her, he treats her like equal material not inferior material. When i talk to gurls i usually like to picture them as inferior to me, stupid and retated and confused and flawed. But my friend said she is equal. hmm why?
Sevnthly
My friend told me that his gurl told him "yeah u shud teach ur friends how to game, there clueless" wtf. Which gurls like to know that she was being gamed by the man she is with. I never met a woman who doesnt want her man to say that fate and luck brought them togehter not pimp skills. but we all know fate is dead and luck is on her side.lol. of course u need to pimp her, but why would u tell her that. makes no sense, why would a woman want to believe that she got gamed and not the "oh he swept me off my feet and my prince blah blah blah" she is not a hoe, very conservative trust me and super stuck up, She is pakistani, no offense but these gurls are invincible to game well almost hehe. She is religous and very moralistic.
So in conclusion to all u playas and me, we might conclude "ahh ther must be something wrong with the gurl" but take a minute and try to see why my friend did and said these things. I dont know why maybe u guys can help me out or explain it to me. But one lesseon i will bestoy on you. NEVER LET ANOTHER HUMAN BEINGS PRESENCE OR ACTIONS OR WORDS DE-RAIL AND MUTILATE YOUR FRAME OF MIND. Its all tied in, I came here and made a big ass post bcuz what my friend said bothered me cuz it conflicted with what i have leanrt her and after typing all this, i made a discovery also. I shud have just gone my own way and not bothered what the other playa was doing.
So FINALLY can u guys plz explain to me why my friend did all these things that go agianst the dj bible and still get romantic with the gurl thx
