Befuddled
Don Juan
Met this girl first week of class, we made good conversation. i wasnt looking to start anything, but i think we both took a mutual liking to each other. i wanted to hang out with this girl a bit more before doign anything, so we get into a project group. (i met her through another guy in the same class). so before the end of the week, both him and me were out of the group (by her), and 2 other guys replaced us. Highly unprofessional, since she didnt even bother letting either of us know until we actually asked her what was going on.
The other dude, is wrapped around her little finger, but i immediately took an instant disliking to this one...cold shouldered her all the way to the Atlantic. I mean i actually surprised myself...we come across each other...shed light up like a light bulb and say hello et al, id smirk and put on my headphones and look the other way. at one point i thought she finally got the message and i was releived.
BUT.... im in a totally new country right now (Australia actually), and at the begining i didnt know too many ppl...fortunately i'm a loveable chap, and seem to have made quite a few friends, so now...i run into her at the super market with her boy-toy, i think she noticed me and hides behind him i dont really bother. she comes up and says hello Befuddled, hows it going etc. i just said hey...hows it going. Bear in mind i couldnt even remember her name. so anyway i continue shopping cause im not really looking for a biatch for a friend. ( i wouldnt have minded hooking up with her in the begining, but not anymore... desrespect me and ur off to antartica...not by choice...thats just who i am)
thats just an example thought. my question is... after you and a girl go through an 'awkward' phase or cold shouldering, is it ever possible to get back to normal ? not that im interested, but just curious.
The other dude, is wrapped around her little finger, but i immediately took an instant disliking to this one...cold shouldered her all the way to the Atlantic. I mean i actually surprised myself...we come across each other...shed light up like a light bulb and say hello et al, id smirk and put on my headphones and look the other way. at one point i thought she finally got the message and i was releived.
BUT.... im in a totally new country right now (Australia actually), and at the begining i didnt know too many ppl...fortunately i'm a loveable chap, and seem to have made quite a few friends, so now...i run into her at the super market with her boy-toy, i think she noticed me and hides behind him i dont really bother. she comes up and says hello Befuddled, hows it going etc. i just said hey...hows it going. Bear in mind i couldnt even remember her name. so anyway i continue shopping cause im not really looking for a biatch for a friend. ( i wouldnt have minded hooking up with her in the begining, but not anymore... desrespect me and ur off to antartica...not by choice...thats just who i am)
thats just an example thought. my question is... after you and a girl go through an 'awkward' phase or cold shouldering, is it ever possible to get back to normal ? not that im interested, but just curious.
