The Weight Issue

[TheMonkeyKing]

I've had this girl basically in love with me for a long time. I've always thought she'd be good GF/wife material, if only for the fact she seems to idolise me a little. She is naturally beautiful with style and doesn't need or use much war paint. She's always been on the slightly larger side, not fat, but sort of curvaceous.

She was a long-time FB but eventually we moved away from each other and had relationships with others. Our mutual friends always hint at us ending up together.

Latterly she's got a lot of weight on. Her mother and older sister are both large. Last time I saw her I was asking her generally about her continuing playing hockey, which she used to. She said she didn't anymore.

Does anyone have any experience of a chick drastically getting in shape after exclusivity? Is it appropriate to suggest so??

 

[Tictac]

I had a woman that worked for me that went from a size 14 to size 0 dress. She was a complete knockout at her lower weight and has keep the weight off.

That's rare though. Look at Mom - that's the most likely scenario.

 

[9asus2]

That's rare though. Look at Mom - that's the most likely scenario.

This 9/10

Look at siblings and aunts too.

She may work the weight off, but 2 or 5 years down the line.... the above is the most likely scenario

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I've had this girl basically in love with me for a long time. I've always thought she'd be good GF/wife material, if only for the fact she seems to idolise me a little. She is naturally beautiful with style and doesn't need or use much war paint. She's always been on the slightly larger side, not fat, but sort of curvaceous.

She was a long-time FB but eventually we moved away from each other and had relationships with others. Our mutual friends always hint at us ending up together.

Latterly she's got a lot of weight on. Her mother and older sister are both large. Last time I saw her I was asking her generally about her continuing playing hockey, which she used to. She said she didn't anymore.

Does anyone have any experience of a chick drastically getting in shape after exclusivity? Is it appropriate to suggest so??

Dont ever complain about it. A good way to do it is get her into fitness with you. Make it something you do together.

Add dance too, it knocks and keeps weight off.

 

[Yewki]

I think you're asking this question because you have no other options.

As for her, she'll probably be overweight the rest of her life. Best case scenario you're able to motivate her to lose weight and get in shape... temporarily. If you ever become exclusive/married I bet she'd get even bigger than she is now.

If she's unbangable now, don't even waste your time with her. All you should do is subtly hint that you prefer smaller women. If she gets the hint and someday becomes bangable, go for it then. Until then, move on.

 

[Armourhead]

Yeah,

I've had ex gfs who have lost weight, started going to the gym etc after they met me. I'd say one ex went from a 6 to an 8 within a year.

I wouldn't actively encourage it though, all you're doing when you get her to lose weight is increasing her SMV, at the same time you are lowering your own SMV by investing into helping her. If she's happy dating you when she's a 6 there is no guarantee she will be happy with you when she's an 8. All you'll end up doing is putting in the hard work for the next guy who comes around to sweep her away from you.

Ideally find a girl/girls who is/are attractive enough as is and are happy to be with you. Don't make the same mistake I did

 

[Trump]

I've had this girl basically in love with me for a long time. I've always thought she'd be good GF/wife material, if only for the fact she seems to idolise me a little. She is naturally beautiful with style and doesn't need or use much war paint. She's always been on the slightly larger side, not fat, but sort of curvaceous.

She was a long-time FB but eventually we moved away from each other and had relationships with others. Our mutual friends always hint at us ending up together.

Latterly she's got a lot of weight on. Her mother and older sister are both large. Last time I saw her I was asking her generally about her continuing playing hockey, which she used to. She said she didn't anymore.

Does anyone have any experience of a chick drastically getting in shape after exclusivity? Is it appropriate to suggest so??

LOL. Come on bro, you tell us a girl is absolutely 100% in love with you, she is naturally beautiful, you were having sex with her, all your buddies and her girlfriends know you guys and say you should get together.

She has now gained some weight, and you are asking us if there is any situation where a girl goes from Oprah weight to Jessica Alba weight if you decide you want to be exclusive?

I love how this site is more about wishful thinking than actual doing.

 

[El Payaso]

Yeah,

I've had ex gfs who have lost weight, started going to the gym etc after they met me. I'd say one ex went from a 6 to an 8 within a year.

I wouldn't actively encourage it though, all you're doing when you get her to lose weight is increasing her SMV, at the same time you are lowering your own SMV by investing into helping her. If she's happy dating you when she's a 6 there is no guarantee she will be happy with you when she's an 8. All you'll end up doing is putting in the hard work for the next guy who comes around to sweep her away from you.

Ideally find a girl/girls who is/are attractive enough as is and are happy to be with you. Don't make the same mistake I did

This. Lol. Date her till she becomes too fat that she turns your d!ck soft and just move onto the next girl.

 

[zekko]

This has nothing to do with me, but I know a lot of women who were married, put on a lot of weight, and then got thinner because they had bariatric surgery. A few of them became quite attractive. These women were in their 30s though, and had children.

I can't think of too many women who were fat and then got thin and stayed thin just on diet and exercise. A few though, and one was probably one of the most physically attractive women I've ever met. I think her "fat period" was a fairly short period of time in her early 20s though. She noticed she had gotten plump, and took quick steps to correct it. She's stayed thin for probably 30 years now, she never did put it back on.

 

[logicallefty]

This. Lol. Date her till she becomes too fat that she turns your d!ck soft and just move onto the next girl.

Yyyyep.. This ^^ This is the one area that I let my lower head make decisions over my upper one... Am I attracted to her or not? If she is in that weight where she looks heavier than you normally like not by a lot and you really aren't sure, then take it for a test drive... She may blow your mind in the sack and her extra lbs may not be an issue for you... Your d|ck will either get hard or it won't... On the other hand if she is an all out hiefer who just looks repulsive and smells like a fat girl then there is your answer... The fat girl smell, that's what gets me.. Luckly I haven't been that close to one in many years but just thinking about it is making me gag right now..