"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The way you deal with....the horrid...

Charm&Style

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This is basicly just an open thread for everyone to put some input...

How do you guys deal with drama queens...

or

with a girl that your trying to game whose best friend is a drama queen and fvcks shvt up....


or

with a girl that your gaming but she cant stand up for herself...what ever her friend says she has to follow yet you know deep down she knows your right.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Truth

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1. Ignore them.
2. Ignore the best friend.
3. Tell her what you see and suggest she stand up to her friend.
 

Rocko

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1. Treat them the opposite of how others treat them
2. When you first meet her say "Yes! That was perfect! I am also the ****block for my friends! Hi 5"
3. Explain to her what she really feels.
 
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