The way to not get rejected!

[tomyv]

Hi, I'm new around here. I'm a 26 yr old avg. guy who was in a relationship for 7 yrs! Anyway, I'm back in the game, and I've found the way for me to kill it with the girls at the bars. Instead of doing the eye contact, approach the girl and introduce yourself routine, which does work, sometimes, I simply look for a girl I'm interested in, move to her general location, then just take a minute and look around to find something to talk about. The other night, I saw a girl that smoked winston's, so I just said, wow, you don't see people smoking winston's often. Another time, there was a bachelorette party, the girls had penis headbands on, I turn to the hottie next to me and say "that girl has a penis on her head." Simply put, that's the easiest, non threatening way to approach, and the chics think, "wow I met this cool guy", instead of "yeah, I got picked up last night at the bar". It works for me, just thought I'd share.

 

[tx_xp]

The situations you describe work good for a bar, in fact sometimes you don't need to do anything at all in the bar besides be able to carry on some conversation. I think your tip would work well. At a club you generally need to do something, in a bar they will begin to hit on you if you don't hit on them.

I think you raise another interesting point also. A bar is a very easy place to meet people, it may be a lot easier than the club. I rather the club because I like to dance.

Thanks for the tip!

 

[tomyv]

the club

I go for the bars, simply because I'm a talker, not a dancer. I find myself hanging around playing wallflower dude at the clubs, just not my scene.

 

[Mr. Latte]

The only way not to get rejected is not to tryin the first place. Never try, and I guarantee that you'll never be rejected. Of course, you'll gain nothing either. Remember, EVERYONE from Brad Pitt to Pook to Urkel has been rejected before. Suck it up and move on.