"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The way this guy dealt those b1tches impressed me

Who Dares Win

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So there is this group of girls in their early 20s, they move around the smaller bar of the club running, dancing and laughting noisily, they were behaving like they were the owners of the club.

Once in a while some guy pay attention to them and they clearly make fun of him, sometime mocking him or throwing some bait at him only to ignore him right after.

When no guy was paying attention they on purpose surrounded a guy waiting for his drink, smiled, faked dancing with him only again to move away once he was trying to reciprocate the attention.

I was observing all this scenes untill a guy which looked decent looking but nothing special reached the bar, he was well dressed with a decent hair cut and an overall clean aura.

They first throw a bait on him by staring at him from a short distance and waving their hands, he smiles with an obvious courtesy smile only to face the bar again.

Then one of them gets close to him ask his name and he replies without even facing her but still facing the bar, he tells his name and nothing else..the girl was quite confused and went back closer to her friends.

Now its the goodlooking one of the group lets say a hb7 which gets close to him followed right after from the other girls, she repeats his name and ask where he comes from, he replies again one word only the name of his country still facing the bar.

You can see he got their full attention now, those circles and dances were no longer happening, they surround him and ask him what is he doing here, he grabs his drinks from the bargirl, use his hands to move the girls in front of him, smiles and leaves them going back to the dance floor without even turning back.

LIKE A BOSS.

Saw him later leaving the club alone so hardly he ignored them cause he had a better deal waiting, he was really in control and clever to see through the bullsh1t.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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so basically nothing happened
 

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So nothing happened because he didnt leave the club with a girl to bang?

I mean no offence but do you understand what exactly happened, what he did compared to those other guys which basically were b1tches to the b1tches, toys for them?

The difference between him and those other guys which valued pvssy so much that thinking that they "could run game" on those b1tches pretty much made themselves into toys for them only to be thrown away, they threw away their dignity just to "have a shot"?

I believe that guy shown the right attitute toward certain situations, that pretty much was my point.
 

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How old was this guy?

As I've gotten older I've learnt to recognize these games and respond appropriately to the games, lil teeny boppers play.

With age comes expirience.
 

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Well handled. That guy knew exactly what those women were, and knew not to bother with them. I would have done the same thing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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old_skoolr said:
How old was this guy?

As I've gotten older I've learnt to recognize these games and respond appropriately to the games, lil teeny boppers play.

With age comes expirience.
Hard to say but guess late 20s.
 

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I do the same thing when I am not a AFC, one of the most underrated feelings in the world
 

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My favourite replies to stupid girls who approach me like this are "have I approached you? or, "did I give you permission to talk to me?" Or something similar. Said nicely with a neutral expression on your face.

They literally don't know where to look or what to say. I've done this several times and it 'works' well. Don't use angry voice/face though - that makes you look like an ahole.
 
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