"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are your guys oppinions on this....

Me and jess have been known each other for 4 years now. We started as just friends who hanged out with the same group of people, we'd always be at the same parties and would chill at the same lounges. This past year we got together and weve just instantly clicked.

As of you who have read my past posts about this hb8 shes totally different then any other girl ive meet. Shes not the type of girl who guys out and hooks up with guys, or is slvtty, or any of that other bs we see in most girls.

Anyways i see that on this website its a big problem when girls tell a guy that we're just friends....but jess and i who are together for about a year now consider each other best friends but yet we are together and have feelings for one another.

So i think that when a guy and a girl start out in begining a relationship theres nothing wrong with it if she says we are like best friends, as long as you see her showing her feelings of interest for you.

She's also said that we are like brother and sister because we always fight but then laugh it off, but at the same time shes always under my arms, always showing me her love, and so forth....


what do you guys think....is this total bs or what...in some way it makes sence to me and in some way it doesnt :kick:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It would help to know wtf you are talking about.

You are together but having feelings for each other?? Shouldn't you?

What are you asking?
 
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As of you who have read my past posts about this hb8 shes totally different then any other girl ive meet. Shes not the type of girl who guys out and hooks up with guys, or is slvtty, or any of that other bs we see in most girls.
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that kind of thinking can get you into some serious trouble..... You should never make assumptions about anyone, especially a girl. She's "wired" like the rest of them and if some guy comes along and pushes the right buttons she'll hook up with him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Slut is a term coined by ignorant fvcks who couldn't get laid or who ran into a women they lost to a better man.

I think it's hypocritical for me to call a girl a slut, considering I've been with alot of women. It's an "old world" way of viewing liberated women who have just as much right to sleep around as i do.
 
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...no

a slvt to me is that innocent girl who i hooked up with and after we banged she try's to arrouse me by acting like a hooker just to try to get my approval.
 
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What the **** are you talking about C&S? She role played being a hooker for fun so she's a slut?

And that thinking is wrong. "This girl is different, not a slut, etc". EVERY GIRL IS DIFFERENT. NOT EVERY GIRL IS A SLUT.

This is the problem with AFCs, they've been hurt so much that they make huge generalizations, then when they get just a wee bit of success, this one's different because they don't want to accept that they may get hurt.

Well guess what:



EMBRACE PAIN, IT LET'S YOU KNOW YOU'RE ALIVE!
 
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wtf bro calm your ass down...did i mention anything about role playing...no douche bagg.

Trust me most girls ive been with end up being a slutt...its like they were good till we hooked up and after they go all **** craved.


AFC...me hahahahaha bro you have no clue what your talking about...maybe i should learn from your e-pimpness hahahaha i bet while im out at parties and promoting clubs your ass will be at home with your d1ck in your hand.

i hate when fags like you jump into conclusions thinkin they're the sh1t...you needa relax and get laid.

obviously my experience with girls is way different because they try hard to get my approval...the only reason im on this site is i hate myspace and while im at work this wastes my time.

...thnx
 
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Charm&Style said:
obviously my experience with girls is way different because they try hard to get my approval...the only reason im on this site is i hate myspace and while im at work this wastes my time.

...thnx
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Maybe that answered your ?

You were a challenge and they knew that acting outside of there regular "slut" likeliness you thought you had something mroe than just a girl wanting to get you to **** her.

Girls run game too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Charm&Style said:
As of you who have read my past posts about this hb8 shes totally different then any other girl ive meet. Shes not the type of girl who guys out and hooks up with guys, or is slvtty, or any of that other bs we see in most girls.

Anyways i see that on this website its a big problem when girls tell a guy that we're just friends....but jess and i who are together for about a year now consider each other best friends but yet we are together and have feelings for one another.

So i think that when a guy and a girl start out in begining a relationship theres nothing wrong with it if she says we are like best friends, as long as you see her showing her feelings of interest for you.

She's also said that we are like brother and sister because we always fight but then laugh it off, but at the same time shes always under my arms, always showing me her love, and so forth....


what do you guys think....is this total bs or what...in some way it makes sence to me and in some way it doesnt :kick:
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Its a problem when you try to pursue and they tell you they only want to be friends because you aren't getting what you want.

The question should be does she ever refer to you as her man or something of that likeliness.

Does she introduce you to people as a friend?

Girls say stupid **** all the time also.

Get a girl on the phone and you can hold the phone away from your ear at least 10 second and put it back and shell still be talking and you wont have missed anything. You say oh yeah and they think you were listening the whole time.
 
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