"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Way of The Superior Man

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OK, probably a year or two back I got a highlight of a guy called David Deida, a spiritual coach for people, “men in general”.

He has authored many inspirational books, one of which is called “The Way of The Superior Man”, (the one I have).

“The Way of The Superior Man” speaks for it’s self!
It speaks volumes in few words, so much so that it takes a second read to get the ‘jig’. David outlines the polarised differences between the feminine and masculine (women/man), how living to the supreme masculine way, living to the full, at your edge!

Truthfully, I can say that it is a summary of this full site but without the BS!
It withholds the workings of Alfa male, DJing, how to be the man women want etc. etc…Of course, not literally (there is no chapter heading of Alfa Male or such, I just put it in to reach understanding of the DJ members). Without emphasising on women, although there is a lot of talk on them, they are NOT emphasised to the point were we look at them as a goddess! In fact he is critical on the reader, YOU, the MAN!!!

Now that being said, I highly recommend this book, especially if you’re reading this forum!!!
Oooh…I’m sorry...was that too harsh??? GRAB YOUR BALLS ANS TKE IT LIKE A MAN…that is… if you have any???

Finally, if you have this book, or any other David Deida’s material, please fill free to leave a post.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have been recommended to read this and have bought it but havent started it yet. I have high expectations!
 

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TheGameMaster said:
i have been recommended to read this and have bought it but havent started it yet. I have high expectations!
My fellow DJ, if you start it right now, no literally, go now, this will be the last post on this site for you, unless of course you want to pass knowledge to the less fortunate!
 

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I read this book a number of years ago, and it's always stuck with me. A very, very good and insightful book that every man should read before he turns 25.
 

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Jesus said:
I read this book a number of years ago, and it's always stuck with me. A very, very good and insightful book that every man should read before he turns 25.
Jesus my man, no wonder you're so wise!!!

Yes you are so true to say that, but I think it can still apply to all men from the potty to the grave, but like you say, it is especially essential for the young man to apply towards his being.

I reckon 16 and up, oh, and everyone on this forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jesus said:
I read this book a number of years ago, and it's always stuck with me. A very, very good and insightful book that every man should read before he turns 25.
Jesus my man, no wonder you're so wise!!!

Yes you are so true to say that, but I think it can still apply to all men from the potty to the grave, but like you say, it is especially essential for the young man to apply towards his being.

I reckon 16 and up, oh, and everyone on this forum.
 

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I listened to the audiobook version of this about a year and a half ago. IMHO, this book should have been an article. The overall message of this book is a positive one. A concise version of this book would read like so:

In the man + woman equation, the man is always the constant.

I don't agree that this book should be bedside reading for dudes, young or old. In my opinion this book is highly over-rated and over promoted. This is no gospel on how to be a man, because there is no gospel, just some general guidelines. The more you mature as man, the less you can rely on guides and manuals on how to be a man. Instead, you learn how to rely on your intuition and experience.
 

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CptnFantastic said:
I listened to the audiobook version of this about a year and a half ago. IMHO, this book should have been an article. The overall message of this book is a positive one. A concise version of this book would read like so:

In the man + woman equation, the man is always the constant.

I don't agree that this book should be bedside reading for dudes, young or old. In my opinion this book is highly over-rated and over promoted. This is no gospel on how to be a man, because there is no gospel, just some general guidelines. The more you mature as man, the less you can rely on guides and manuals on how to be a man. Instead, you learn how to rely on your intuition and experience.

OK Cptfantastic, I specifically advised that this book is for the young unexperienced man (boy), or anyone that needs a guide towards women and the world (everyone on this site, including you), and if you didn’t need such guides because of your experience and intuition why are you on this site???

Of courser there is no gospel or guidelines if your such a wise guy like you, just like this forum is a guideline for the lost men that chose to be on it (like you!!!)
 

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java01 said:
OK Cptfantastic, I specifically advised that this book is for the young unexperienced man (boy), or anyone that needs a guide towards women and the world (everyone on this site, including you), and if you didn’t need such guides because of your experience and intuition why are you on this site???

Of courser there is no gospel or guidelines if your such a wise guy like you, just like this forum is a guideline for the lost men that chose to be on it (like you!!!)
I see... You're smart for questioning the source of advice. I'm not lost. I'm 26 now, I've been dating and had girlfriends with various degrees of success since I was 16. My current woman is a former model who is now a successful corporate attorney. She's been with me for about a year.

I got interested in the dating advice stuff when I let my game slip big time when I was about 20. I'm a voracious reader by nature, and so I read anything I could get my hands on related to women, leadership, persuasion, and the game. Of course, I didn't just read, I wanted to apply the things I learned to figure out what works for me. Over time, I improved and got better, and now I have a solid understanding of how the game really works.

I'm here to help out the fellas who can grasp what I'm saying. Not everyone is going to listen, and that's cool.
 
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