"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The way of the DJ?

Hamno

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There is something that I'v been noticing in a number of threds lately, and I do wonder if it is the exception or the rule.

Threads such as 'I Will Not Trust Women For Now On' and 'Isn't just a shame when hot girls are fat?' do make me wonder as to what the true level of sexism in being a DJ is.

Maybe it was just this post that finally bugged the hell out of me,

I don't like women like that. Frankly I'd like to backhand one of those, but I never actually would of course. I'd probably just get pissed at a girl like that and say "Fine f**k you then, b**ch", -DinoCassanova

Do people on here actually believe that women are weak and inferior? Nothing but a means?

Hamno
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DinoCassanova

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Since my comment in one of my posts bothered this guy so bad, I'll address what I said. I've hit a female exactly once, and it was about ten years ago, when I was young and full of c*m , you know how it is, and she was throwing sh*t at me, had just broken my pager as part of her tantrum , and then she hit me. At that point, when she hit me, she caught the hand. And that was all it was. It was not like some kind of "beating". I admit that it's wrong. But she even said later, after we had made up, this particular chick lives out in NJ now and we're still close friends in fact, she even said later, when we were both apologizing to each other over dinner at some kind of family party I took her to, she said, " Yeah I had that one coming". It was so weak it did not leave a mark or anything at all. She was fine. She was, literally in fact, eating out of my hand that very night at that very party ; I was feeding her grapes. We had a great time. I'm not proud of having done that that one time, and I would only see something like that happening again in a very extreme kind of situation, where the woman's totally out of control and needs to be put into check and reminded who her man is. (And I hate to tell you this Hamno, but there are alot of women out there who appreciate a man who can put them in line when they get out of line; not w/ a beating, no, because that just isn't right, but at least w/ some harsh words, or making her get out the car and get her own way home, or something like that). Frankly, alot of hot women feed off the drama of that kind of sh*t man. It's strange but it's true. Read Jenna Jameson's book. Most red-blooded males will admit she's definitely near a 10. And who's the guy she loved (who knows, probably STILL loves in her heart) the most of any guy she ever had, even more than her husband right now?? The guy with whom she had the MOST drama, who treated her the worst, including SEVERAL fairly serious physical assaults, who was fairly "distant" emotionally and was unsure of his level of committment to her. Tell me he, as F'd up as he clearly is/was, was not a DJ in his time.

Since I made that initial comment I won't apologize for it. I stand by it. Those nose too high in the air, city "career" women, again as I said like the kind you see on that tv show The Apprentice; I don't like them. They need to be put in check. Brought down to earth. Reminded that they're women and we're men. Because if I was their man they DAMN sure would not put me into check like I'm sure they'd expect they would. As for thinking of women as inferior or "subhuman" as somebody else around here said, that's complete nonsense. I love women with TOO much of a passion. I'm so passionate about women that I have the portraits of two women who I loved before, my g/f from high school and another from my early 20's (the one I talked about above) tattooed on my body. Tell me that isn't passion for women. Tell me that's thinking of them as weak , inferior, or "subhuman". I'd kill, for the RIGHT woman, if she needed me to. I put women on a pedestal bro. That's why I pray to the Virgin Mother and to the crucified virgin who is the patroness of my original hometown; I literally venerate women figures, man. Those are supreme mother-figures right there man. I see a man badly mistreating a good woman for no reason whatsoever it would make me just as angry as it would make any Mr.SelfRighteous Nice Guy. So don't paint me to be some kind of woman-hater or anything like that. Because that's just a flat-out lie. ~DinoCassanova
 

Egoist

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man oh man

i think the real answer is that once you really understand women and their programming, you get somewhat jaded.. I guess it all goes back to evolutionary psychology and ****.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jariel

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No, sexism isn't the DJ way. These guys are just bitter over being hurt by women. It's like a recovery process I guess, like women burning photos of their ex-boyfriends and vowing that all men are bastards etc.

Some women are total b1tches, but a DJ is confident enough to ditch them before they do any harm.

Or maybe these guys are latent homosexuals and prefer the company of men. :crackup:
 

diplomatic_lies

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Its bitterness. You'll notice their anger is mainly directed towards confident woman. Some guys got their balls handed to them, so now they're lashing out, trying to find some woman to blame for their own shortcomings.
 
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