"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141805

Latinoman, ella es simplemente una mujer, no es una Dama.
Y parece que no es muy desarollada y le falta madurez Usted lo tiene que notar.
Aunque trate realmente de comunicar me profundamente con ella, no lo quiso entender

Esta usando el forum como un a forma de subir su auto estima, pero le falla por que no entiende lo que es tener el character de un a persona buena.
Ell lo usa de hablar en forma condescendente, no con clase y bondad.
Ella no se deja reconocer eso, por que los golpes de la vida le han cambiado su pecepcion.


Me parece que no es la culpa de ella, si no, que nadie la enseno a aprender ser un a dama femenina y buena y graciosa.

Me parece que es mejor que ella se vaya.
No nos quier dar una chance, y no quier dejar que la hablen con madurez e intelligencia
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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(Waves back at Kamille - I liked the first one best. Mine is actually linked on LS somewhere... §oh it's in my profile here too. Hairs longer now.)
 

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Eek!

Interceptor has been turned spanish by the power of this thread.

*Bows down to Hombre's Loveshack powers of linguistic change*

LOL.

To be serious for a moment though this is a fair and even handed topic Hombre so good work with it.

I did a bit more reading around on Loveshack and there are indeed some posters over there not sent by us but regular members who do give good advice like we do here.

Still I think our little invasion was warranted because in my view and what I've seen the good advice giving regs over there are far outnumbered by the bad advice givers who encourage doormat mentality and coddling instead of moving forward and progressing.

So yeah just my opinion but before our raid the good advice givers were like a drop in the bucket.

And with as many members as you all have thats one tiny drop in one extremely large bucket.

So I think our raid was good in the sense it woke some people up to a different perspective and got people talking about things on both sides.
 

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tick37 said:
Insulting women isn't very mature. It's not even Don Juan.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1374835#post1374835

See post #2 by YOU.

I immediately told her that she was a skank. I didn't even think about it. It just came out. Then she told me that most women have slept with that many men. I started laughing at her twisted statement so hard that I had to leave the room. I was a dumbass for marrying that hor.


Hmmmm...hypocritical. Don't you agree?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Phyzzle said:
What I think is truly amazing is that Hombre made 2 posts here, maybe 3 paragraphs, and all these posters immediately said "Well that's obviously a woman."
Did have something to do with the fact that in her post she did identify herself as a woman?

I mean, it's just incredible how the thought process is so different between males and females. (Remember that 'guy' Potato? I think we can be confident of our verdict there.
So you can't tell the difference between a man and a woman?
 

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KontrollerX said:
Eek!

Interceptor has been turned spanish by the power of this thread.
Lol.
 

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Interceptor said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141805

Latinoman, ella es simplemente una mujer, no es una Dama.
Y parece que no es muy desarollada y le falta madurez Usted lo tiene que notar.
Aunque trate realmente de comunicar me profundamente con ella, no lo quiso entender

Esta usando el forum como un a forma de subir su auto estima, pero le falla por que no entiende lo que es tener el character de un a persona buena.
Ell lo usa de hablar en forma condescendente, no con clase y bondad.
Ella no se deja reconocer eso, por que los golpes de la vida le han cambiado su pecepcion.


Me parece que no es la culpa de ella, si no, que nadie la enseno a aprender ser un a dama femenina y buena y graciosa.

Me parece que es mejor que ella se vaya.
No nos quier dar una chance, y no quier dejar que la hablen con madurez e intelligencia
I totally agree with you.
 

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wow, you both speak spanish.
 

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Interceptor said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141805

Latinoman, ella es simplemente una mujer, no es una Dama.
Y parece que no es muy desarollada y le falta madurez Usted lo tiene que notar.
Aunque trate realmente de comunicar me profundamente con ella, no lo quiso entender

Esta usando el forum como un a forma de subir su auto estima, pero le falla por que no entiende lo que es tener el character de un a persona buena.
Ell lo usa de hablar en forma condescendente, no con clase y bondad.
Ella no se deja reconocer eso, por que los golpes de la vida le han cambiado su pecepcion.


Me parece que no es la culpa de ella, si no, que nadie la enseno a aprender ser un a dama femenina y buena y graciosa.

Me parece que es mejor que ella se vaya.
No nos quier dar una chance, y no quier dejar que la hablen con madurez e intelligencia
More drivel. I happen to speak French and Spanish so I did understand all of that.

I'm a good and feminine woman but that's ok if you don't believe it.

And I'm not the one who wouldn't give YOU a chance...it's the other way around. I can see why so many on here have trouble with women based on reception I got.

And no, you didn't try to communicate on any kind of deeper level..lay off the weed bro.

Reset, you couldn't have been more wrong. I thought you were the ONLY one pretty much who was half way, reasonable..well KS and Iqqui also. The rest of you I don't know...bunch of useless drivel. You didn't want to really have an intelligent debate. Not open to anything. And that's what will hold you back.

Oh and Kontroller, I don't know. I'm not seeing any open-mindedness on this side of the fence at all. But I appreciate your post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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potato said:
Did have something to do with the fact that in her post she did identify herself as a woman?
She didn't in her first 3 posts on this forum.

I meant 'here' as in this forum, not this thread. Latinoman and a few others immediately said she was a woman, without any prodding.
 

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Hombre, please answer my post. The one before I wave back to Kamille.
 

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Hombre, please answer my post. The one before I wave back to Kamille.
Sorry I was giving my H a BJ, can you post it again here. I don't have much time because he's gettng ready to return the favor...HURRY! Rapido! Vamonos!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you agree that the moderation at Loveshack is used by the women to silence the men? And if so, do have you ever posted that opinion.
 

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The Hombre Challenge

Can she make a post that doesn't refer to "you guys" or "you posters" or "this forum"? Can a post that talks about things that may or may not happen in real life, instead of the posters here and what losers they are?

At 33 posts per day, can she simply STOP posting before she collapses at midnight at turns back into a pumpkin?

(Yeah, I don't really read Interceptor posts either, too long, but not really phony.)
 

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stop feeding the ****ing troll i cant wait that this **** gets banned.
 

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HOMBRE said:
Sorry I was giving my H a BJ, can you post it again here. I don't have much time because he's gettng ready to return the favor...HURRY! Rapido! Vamonos!
Sure. I think the last time your H got a BJ (assuming you have a H) was the last time the Braves won the World Series.

Anyway, yo dudo que tu puedas mamar bueno.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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