Just curious about opinions regarding this guy. I'm sure he's going to be doing some serious time. I checked out his fights on youtube and he seemed to be a very talented fighter. I guess he had one-itis and it got the best of him.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'd fvck her, she is attractive. He had plenty of options since 2009, when he first entered the pornography industry. He had plenty of options, but I guess Ms. Mack locked him down to extenuate the perpetual belief of females locking down a man in order to fvck him over later? I guarantee that her income is much higher than his, and maybe he was jealous of that? Enough to the point of beating her azz down and ruining his career because of beta behavior? Give him a little more credit than that! He was only a substance abuser.bradd80 said:Are you kidding this guy's choices in who he dated, fell in love with, and how he reacted are the very definition of being a chump AFC. The fact that he picked a cvm bucket wh0re to date and fall in love with over all these "options" demonstrates the fact that he had chump disease.
Him going crazy and almost beating a girl to death because she makes choices he has no control over is only more proof of that.
Wait, what bro? He lands a good looking chick, who makes more money than him....and he b|ows it. What we are talking about is how he a beta faggot for asserting his [physical] dominance? WOAH! Hold on dude.MidnightCity said:status came from the fact he was dating that girl. otherwise would anyone really know who he even is?
I think the sad fact is that the Aug 8th beating is the reason for the rise in recognition for these two....I had never heard of her before this, but then again, I'm not a porn consumer....Maybe she was well known in the genre before this....(?)MidnightCity said:i agree bradd. i think too much of his validation and status came from the fact he was dating that girl. otherwise would anyone really know who he even is?
Ahh yes, the ol' bradd80 switcheroo.bradd80 said:lmao i think bdj's been drinking again, it doesn't matter how much she earned or how good looking she is, the woman is a goddamned prostitute for chrissakes and that's what makes her the lowest of the low in terms of "options", and that's why this dude falling in love with such garbage and losing his control and throwing away his freedom (and possibly his life) over such a low class slvt is what makes what he did such a chump afc move.
I think bedj has confused afc to mean only a weak looking guy with toothpick arms and skinny legs. The reality is, big strong men can be afc chumps too, as war machine's case has shown us all too clearly. Being a chump has nothing to do with how physically strong you are, it has to do with how mentally strong you are.
Trust me on this, I've dated a 'camgirl' and she makes more bank than you do. For Christy Mack to go on the big screen, that's straight cash homie. Don't underestimate your fellow man's horniness. With all respect to you bradd80, you can not be that naive.As for her making more money, don't be fooled. Just because some of these porn actresses are famous doesn't mean they are rich. Not every one of them will develop into a million dollar empire like jenna jameson. The vast majority of these girls are chewed up and spit out within months, while the most famous ones might last a few years if they're lucky. And even the biggest female porn stars will usually end up destitute and doing stuff like running bankrupt tattoo parlours - and again that's if they're lucky.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
An interesting sidenote; One of the biggest badasses of the 20th century, Jack Dempsey, fell in love and married a "working girl". If memory serves me correctly, she didn't quit her trade.bradd80 said:lmao i think bedj's been drinking again, it doesn't matter how much she earned or how good looking she is, the woman is a goddamned prostitute for chrissakes and that's what makes her the lowest of the low in terms of "options", and that's why this dude falling in love with such garbage and losing his control and throwing away his freedom (and possibly his life) over such a low class slvt is what makes what he did such a chump afc move.
I think bedj has confused afc to mean only a weak looking guy with toothpick arms and skinny legs. The reality is, big strong men can be afc chumps too, as war machine's case has shown us all too clearly. Being a chump has nothing to do with how physically strong you are, it has to do with how mentally strong you are.
As for her making more money, don't be fooled. Just because some of these porn actresses are famous doesn't mean they are rich. Not every one of them will develop into a million dollar empire like jenna jameson. The vast majority of these girls are chewed up and spit out within months, while the most famous ones might last a few years if they're lucky. And even the biggest female porn stars will usually end up destitute and doing stuff like running bankrupt tattoo parlours - and again that's if they're lucky.
Absolutely. That's what I'm trying to let new members know , there is NO absolute.but i guess even SS veterans are susceptible to the absolutist mentality.
Low hanging fruit. It's okay if that's what you're after.No, he's not off his meds he's just writing comments here while drunk again. Give him a couple hours, he'll sober up.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
At least try and not succeed, than to never try at all.bradd80 said:oh well at least you tried
That was pretty funny actually, some charisma in there. If you took it as entertainment, then yeah, it was funny. However, that "I'm going to go off" or whatever he said, showed it's true colors later on..... which we all now know.Rubirosa said:Dude has alot of energy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sio3gH8qEQY
(Would a 7-11 clerk refuse service over a hoodie?)
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I was hoping you would chime in on this thread Bible Belt (Since you're an MMA guy). I wanted your opinion on War Machine's MMA....If this incident had not happened, do you think he had the potential to be a champion? It's my understanding that he got dismissed by the UFC, not because of ability, but because he pissed off Dana White. He recently beat Roger Huerta, but has been somewhat inactive lately.....Bible_Belt said:He's not going to have an easy time in jail, to say the least.