Okay, I've run fresh out of helpful friends, both male and female, regarding this situation, so I turn to you for some insight. I realize you get about 300 of these each day, so I completely understand if you choose to leave this one unanswered.
I'm a fairly experienced guy, in terms of sexuality, having 28 girls under my belt at age 22, but I never seem to manage to hold on to a woman for more than a few weeks at a time, this is just the background, it doesn't relate to my question.
I went on a blind date this monday, well, not completely blind, being as she had my e-mail address, and we did some webcam chatting first. You know the type, tall, blonde, and with a slight crook in her nose, which she seemed selfconcious of.
Everything seemed to be going well, she was giving me eye contact, smiling, and generally appearing positive to my both verbal and physical flirting. We went for a walk alongside a pier, had drinks at an outdoor coffee shop, and went to a movie (her idea) all on the same night.
Communication went good, not perfect, but good. A few pauses, in my experience, is inevitable during the first date. And as I took her home in my car, she almost threw herself at me, giving me a long close hug, a big beautiful smile, and the notion of "we should do this again sometime", and then stating that she was very tired and had to get some sleep soon. I replied that since it was such a beautiful night, I'd stay up a bit longer.
As this seemed to me as an excuse to go "I win, auomatically", I send her a text message on my cellphone stating: "I had fun today, have a good night"
Wake up the next day, no reply. I automatically think that she was probably asleep when I got it, so just to stay safe, I decide to wait. I wait one day, two days, and three, without getting a reply. She said something during the last date about maybe being available on thursday (The date took place monday), so today, I sent a message inquiring if she was having fun at her parents' place.
No reply.
A few hour later, she appears on my msn screen. I wait about half an hour, then inqire: Heya, how are you? She says: Fine, I follow up with my text message reply, in case she didn't get it: Are you having fun at your parents? She says Yes. I ask about her being available on thursday, she replies that she won't be coming home until the weekend. Then she logs off.
I say to myself: What the hell just happened?
A few hours later, she says (still on msn) that she was sorry she left so abruptly, and that she was going skinny dipping with some friends. I simply reply to this with an OK, and she logs off.
What's happening here, is she trying to turn me into a he-*****, and last but not least, what do I do from here? I still have her on my msn contacts list, but with no clue what to do.
Any help greatly appreciated. If any furter details are needed, I'll be happy to let you know to the best of my memory.
I'm a fairly experienced guy, in terms of sexuality, having 28 girls under my belt at age 22, but I never seem to manage to hold on to a woman for more than a few weeks at a time, this is just the background, it doesn't relate to my question.
I went on a blind date this monday, well, not completely blind, being as she had my e-mail address, and we did some webcam chatting first. You know the type, tall, blonde, and with a slight crook in her nose, which she seemed selfconcious of.
Everything seemed to be going well, she was giving me eye contact, smiling, and generally appearing positive to my both verbal and physical flirting. We went for a walk alongside a pier, had drinks at an outdoor coffee shop, and went to a movie (her idea) all on the same night.
Communication went good, not perfect, but good. A few pauses, in my experience, is inevitable during the first date. And as I took her home in my car, she almost threw herself at me, giving me a long close hug, a big beautiful smile, and the notion of "we should do this again sometime", and then stating that she was very tired and had to get some sleep soon. I replied that since it was such a beautiful night, I'd stay up a bit longer.
As this seemed to me as an excuse to go "I win, auomatically", I send her a text message on my cellphone stating: "I had fun today, have a good night"
Wake up the next day, no reply. I automatically think that she was probably asleep when I got it, so just to stay safe, I decide to wait. I wait one day, two days, and three, without getting a reply. She said something during the last date about maybe being available on thursday (The date took place monday), so today, I sent a message inquiring if she was having fun at her parents' place.
No reply.
A few hour later, she appears on my msn screen. I wait about half an hour, then inqire: Heya, how are you? She says: Fine, I follow up with my text message reply, in case she didn't get it: Are you having fun at your parents? She says Yes. I ask about her being available on thursday, she replies that she won't be coming home until the weekend. Then she logs off.
I say to myself: What the hell just happened?
A few hours later, she says (still on msn) that she was sorry she left so abruptly, and that she was going skinny dipping with some friends. I simply reply to this with an OK, and she logs off.
What's happening here, is she trying to turn me into a he-*****, and last but not least, what do I do from here? I still have her on my msn contacts list, but with no clue what to do.
Any help greatly appreciated. If any furter details are needed, I'll be happy to let you know to the best of my memory.
