"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Walk Up?

biketrials

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I have been having problems with my walk up. I walk up to the girl but then just kind of let her go without getting a number or anything. I am great at the small talk but just do not know when to go further. I kind of just get lost in the conversation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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At some point say...we should chill/hang out/kick it sometime...whats your number...simple.
 

cadilacone

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Start walking away then turn around and say "Hey why don't you write you number down for me." if you start walking away and turn it makes you seem ultra not desperate.
 

The Real Ice Man

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You don't even have to do some rehearsed body movement.

At some point in the conversation, preferably after a high-point where you made her laugh or some ****, tell her you'd love to stay and talk but you have business to attend to and would like to talk with her again later. This is the number close. Get the number and get out.
 
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