MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Yeah we all have ... but just let the girl do her job.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
the waitress challenge
- Thread starter thelad
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Ranger
Guest
Some of you make it sound like a guy doesn’t ever get a shot at a barista or bar tender.
I’ve had both. Two different Starbucks baristas actually. One was 18 years younger than me and a very naughty girl.
You don’t really pick up girls. They pick you up and let you think it was you.
Absolutely give her your personal card.
I’ve had both. Two different Starbucks baristas actually. One was 18 years younger than me and a very naughty girl.
You don’t really pick up girls. They pick you up and let you think it was you.
Absolutely give her your personal card.