"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Urban Gent- sexy stereotype

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I imagine that your link would appeal to the urban homosexual with a special taste for black men. It does nothing for me as a hetero. If you are trying to impress us with urban "style" we have seen it before. In fact, it seems that these trendy black urban males have been wearing the same "styles" for about a decade now. Sure the haircuts and gaudy accessories may change a bit but this gold chain and baggy pants thing has been going on for so long now that it has become a uniform of sorts.
 

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The Conquistador said:
I imagine that your link would appeal to the urban homosexual with a special taste for black men. It does nothing for me as a hetero. If you are trying to impress us with urban "style" we have seen it before. In fact, it seems that these trendy black urban males have been wearing the same "styles" for about a decade now. Sure the haircuts and gaudy accessories may change a bit but this gold chain and baggy pants thing has been going on for so long now that it has become a uniform of sorts.

did you look at the link? and also your negative comments are not needed I doubt you get anything with your judgmental attitude... but then again I am sure that you will reply " o I get tons a girls but they are not my style.... " blah

you are funny with your macho cover up attitude if you dont like a style thats fine, if you dont like a tip thats fine too, but dont come doing your e bully gimmick and think I will back down scared cause nine times out of ten u r a ***** in real life.

internet thugs (ie you) all need hugs

good day
 

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Eh, it is 2010. The black man is so 1992 when it comes to America. Americans basically gave up on finding black culture cool once they got themselves a black president. It was like the pinnacle of black coolness for five seconds. After a year of a black men in the White House it was as if black coolness had come full circle in America. White girls started to go "Ewwww" when they passed a black boy in the hall. White boys started to turn down the hip-hop and turned up the Eurodance.

Now it is the homosexuals turn. Shave your body, spend a fortune on a hair stylist, and kiss a boy. That is what is cool in 2010 America. In the next 8 years America WILL have a very open homosexual president to love.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Eh, it is 2010. The black man is so 1992 when it comes to America. Americans basically gave up on finding black culture cool once they got themselves a black president. It was like the pinnacle of black coolness for five seconds. After a year of a black men in the White House it was as if black coolness had come full circle in America. White girls started to go "Ewwww" when they passed a black boy in the hall. White boys started to turn down the hip-hop and turned up the Eurodance.

Now it is the homosexuals turn. Shave your body, spend a fortune on a hair stylist, and kiss a boy. That is what is cool in 2010 America. In the next 8 years America WILL have a very open homosexual president to love.
Dude. What the hell are you talking about? That made no sense at ALL.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Everything is racist to black guys. They strut around with this macho bravado (mostly in groups) and always have some snide comment to make. I wonder why such a "tough" group of males are constantly having their tender feelings hurt and need to tell some authority about it.

I agree that the black culture thing has been played out. Here in Northern Europe at least it has become a thing of ridicule amongst educated young people. The people that emulate urban culture here are lower class fat girls or bird chested wiggers that need a way to express some form of manhood. It is funny to see American blacks come here with their costumes (baggy pants, rediculous bling, sideways hat) and think they are going to "clean house" They are truly still under the impression that most European girls will worship them. I love to watch them stand insecure and out of place with their costumes in the corner of a Amsterdam club huddled in a small mass of pathetic gangster wannabes. I guess word has not yet gotten out that the fable of the magical land of tall blonde white women who bed with any black guy just because he is black does not exist.
I read on another forum about a group of black guys planning a trip to Sweden to "clean house" with the local girls. If they would research properly instead of watching interracial porn they would realize that most Northern European women are bonded to a close circle of friends that is hard to penetrate (for any man) and screwing some homie will not earn her any points within most groups.
The stray *****s that they do find to screw are having sex with many men and not just you because you are black.

Good luck Tranell or Davarious or whatever your real name is. Don't forget to report me for racism!
 

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The Conquistador said:
Everything is racist to black guys. They strut around with this macho bravado (mostly in groups) and always have some snide comment to make. I wonder why such a "tough" group of males are constantly having their tender feelings hurt and need to tell some authority about it.

I agree that the black culture thing has been played out. Here in Northern Europe at least it has become a thing of ridicule amongst educated young people. The people that emulate urban culture here are lower class fat girls or bird chested wiggers that need a way to express some form of manhood. It is funny to see American blacks come here with their costumes (baggy pants, rediculous bling, sideways hat) and think they are going to "clean house" They are truly still under the impression that most European girls will worship them. I love to watch them stand insecure and out of place with their costumes in the corner of a Amsterdam club huddled in a small mass of pathetic gangster wannabes. I guess word has not yet gotten out that the fable of the magical land of tall blonde white women who bed with any black guy just because he is black does not exist.
I read on another forum about a group of black guys planning a trip to Sweden to "clean house" with the local girls. If they would research properly instead of watching interracial porn they would realize that most Northern European women are bonded to a close circle of friends that is hard to penetrate (for any man) and screwing some homie will not earn her any points within most groups.
The stray *****s that they do find to screw are having sex with many men and not just you because you are black.

Good luck Tranell or Davarious or whatever your real name is. Don't forget to report me for racism!
LOL you are completely deluded as well as teh OP. Most of the black guys in my area who clean up tend to drive high end luxury cars, and tend to follow fashion so much you would think they are gay or metro. The thug look has been played out in the wider black community. It's only still in the "hood or ghetto" that it gets any love. Most of those same guys I know would rock this "hood look" on a day off from wearing suits, blazers and expensive clothing. That urban gent look, that's called dressing down for them.
 

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The Conquistador said:
Everything is racist to black guys. They strut around with this macho bravado (mostly in groups) and always have some snide comment to make. I wonder why such a "tough" group of males are constantly having their tender feelings hurt and need to tell some authority about it.

I agree that the black culture thing has been played out. Here in Northern Europe at least it has become a thing of ridicule amongst educated young people. The people that emulate urban culture here are lower class fat girls or bird chested wiggers that need a way to express some form of manhood. It is funny to see American blacks come here with their costumes (baggy pants, rediculous bling, sideways hat) and think they are going to "clean house" They are truly still under the impression that most European girls will worship them. I love to watch them stand insecure and out of place with their costumes in the corner of a Amsterdam club huddled in a small mass of pathetic gangster wannabes. I guess word has not yet gotten out that the fable of the magical land of tall blonde white women who bed with any black guy just because he is black does not exist.
I read on another forum about a group of black guys planning a trip to Sweden to "clean house" with the local girls. If they would research properly instead of watching interracial porn they would realize that most Northern European women are bonded to a close circle of friends that is hard to penetrate (for any man) and screwing some homie will not earn her any points within most groups.
The stray *****s that they do find to screw are having sex with many men and not just you because you are black.

Good luck Tranell or Davarious or whatever your real name is. Don't forget to report me for racism!

thats not racist at all.....

you are judge a race by a few encouuters with people who just happened to be black... I know u r not gonna listen to me when I say this, but I am not judging you being from the Netherlands, I am not talking about robbing people, I am talking about a style of dressing.... idk where all this race stuff came from but before you judge anyone you should look in the mirror
 
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