"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The upper part of my hands are SO dry, they cracked and even started to bleed. Cure??

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(Just like the dry lips)
This happened every winter, I wear glove but they wont help much. My palms have normal moisture though. The ONLY way, is to put on some cream, but it's really annoying/uncomfortable.
It is my food? I eat normal, and drink 2 liters of water each day. Help me out, fellows. Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You don't lift? Cause lifting irritates your hands just below the fingers from handling barbells & stuff.
With time you get those hard pieces of skin (don't know how they are called). Till then, you can wear gloves.

But if you don't lift, I'll check with a doc, that's very weird.
 

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I would even drink a bit more water to help it out and use moisturizer. Happens to me from time to time
 

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Aiken_Drum: I don't lift.

This is not new, happened the last 4-5 years. And in additional my body get dried too! (from my knees to my chest) I have really thin skin, maybe that's the reason? I hate winters, maybe the dry and freezing air is part of the cause too?
Last two years I even get some what dried skin in the summer too!
Only the last 2 weeks I started to drink 2 liters water dayly, before...not even half a liter...

Later.
 

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Go see a dermatologist.

Could be exzema(sp?) I have had it for years and the only relief comes from prescription meds. Sucks.

It has something to do with new skin growing too quickly causing dry and painful irritations.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know what you're going through, it happens to me too, every Winter. It seems to worsen if I wash my hands and then don't dry them completely, even if they're remotely wet. And for some reason it seems to worsen the more I wash my hands. It happens because there is less humidity in the air during the Fall and Winter months. One thing that seems to help is lotion, like you said, and sadly that is the only thing I've found that works. You don't have to get feminine smelling stuff, Gold Bond is great. Hope it all works out for you.
 

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It worsens when you wash your hands because washing removes the oils your skin uses to stay juvinated.

Try some Bag Balm, baby! Also, wear gloves and wash your hands with cooler water until your hands heal, then, keeping the Bag Balm applied, you can pretty much do whatever you want.
 

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Invest in a humidifier. Or a cheap way is to keep the bathroom door open when you take a hot shower, but its not very effective.

Even if you keep your place warm, its the low humidity that makes the indoor air dry, thus zapping moisture from your hands.

Dry air is also not very good for the lining in the lungs for the same reason.



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Shower with cold water, and dont shower for long to keep you skin moist.
Dont use normal soap because it dries your skin, get some medicated soap or liquid parrafin.
See what kind of material suits your skin, cotton shirts are good.
 
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