"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the universal opener !!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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Give me ten minutes the FRENCH philosopher VOLTAIRE said and i ll bed the queen of FRANCE thru the power of my words and he was right !!
See i ve noticed in my past dealings with women that very quickly i was running out of things to say Sometimes i was tired i had no go for some reason

i am a teacher also in FRANCE i teach partly GRAMMAR and partly conversation !! as regards convo , i write down a number of questions on the paper and when the qyestion is running out of steam i pass on to the next question !!! in so doing i can engage the student in a 60 MINUTE convo or whatever
so i thought to myself " why not apply this to my convos with women ?
YOU WRITE DOWN THE QUESTIONS 4 QUESTIONS ( one of them confrontational ) and you always use the same words the same miniplay in you want

now i do just that and i am very successful wth hbs

i always use the two same NEGS TIME CONSTRAINT STATUS CONCEPT

I HAVE CREATED THE UNIVERSAL OPENER i can use anytime anywhere

alpharomeo
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy

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what are you talking about?

You teach grammer? you gotta be kidding me.
 

Sp1kez

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please post an example conversation


you're telling us " BEST OPENER EVER!! LOOK" and then not showing us...wtf
 

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Best opening ever:

You - *Smile at her* *Walk towards her* *Say hello*


The rest is up to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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