"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Ultimate PUA Skill

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There are quite a few ways to seduce women flooding the internet, most of which conflict with each other. Is there one skill above all others that absolutely has to be in place prior to engaging any set?. Without this one skill set EVERYTHING ELSE WILL BE MIS-ALIGNED.

Before I reveal this obvious mindset skill, lets talk about using any over-saturated tactic/technique. If a female discovers they have been the victim of a covert tactic/technique/canned opener/repetitive cut n paste email enticement, etc. They tend to not feel special and begin to wonder how many others have you used this on. Those feelings can trigger internal disapointement of the old " I can't believe I just fell for that" and eventually lead to an instant loss of interest.

What does one do when they have been called out and labeled a player, asked "are you dating anyone else right now", how many girls are you seeing, etc. Keep in mind that it's very true that a tactic known is a opportunity blown. The key to success should be the path of least resistance. This is where ORIGINALITY can score you points and speaks volumes about your character. Diverting from being a JAG (just another guy) builds confidence especially if you are the inovator.

Naturals have a distinct advantage over a lot of men. Their actions are motivated from within not reguritated material. The reality is not everyone is born a natural. The good news we can strive to be more natural like. So whats the skill I am talking about.........two words......COMMON SENSE. Yup sounds simple but you would be surprised how many guys I see just abandone common sense thinking. C.S. should be the default skill that when all else fails to work we revert back to it.

Some obvious examples would be:

1) knowing when to stop (online, texting, on the phone, in person)

2) being aware of consequences (hitting on women with a jealous boyfriend, seducing married women, not using a condom, getting involved with drama queens, etc)

3) knowing when to roll off, walk away from chics that are too easy, know when to next, etc

Common sense should also kick in when you arrange a date and she says yes too quickly and then a few days later you call her and get her voicemail or she gives you an excuse, etc.

Common sense, an oldschool tactic that so many forget to utilize. It could save you a lot of time, money, frustration, headchaes, worry. It can be used in almost every aspect throughout your lifetime.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What you call common sense, is more like wisdom based on reference experience. Knowing that most guys dont have the reference experience to calibrate effectively and are still working on gaining social intelligence, they gotta go through the motions and fvck it up a few times first. It's part of the learning process and you can't ignore it
 

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COD said:
What does one do when they have been called out and labeled a player, asked "are you dating anyone else right now", how many girls are you seeing, etc.
Good post. Its just a matter of not over thinking everything and many guys fail to do that.



But whats your opinion on what you should do when your called out as a player? Iv heard ****y and funny but thats a terrible idea.


im about to make this question a thread but maybe you can give me a good answer before i have to do that.
 

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COD said:
Some obvious examples would be:

1) knowing when to stop (online, texting, on the phone, in person)

2) being aware of consequences (hitting on women with a jealous boyfriend, seducing married women, not using a condom, getting involved with drama queens, etc)
What if one goes overboard? Perhaps drunk texting a girl they've went on a date or two with? I've had this problem a couple times where I'll be at a party and decide to some drunk texting. I never do sappy love drunk texting, it's more along the lines of, "hey you should cook me dinner sometime" but it's usually garbled in drunk talk.

Is it reversible?
 

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well now U are talking about recovering from a set back.......REVIEW my previous articles I wrote about that.

AND NO U DONT HAVE TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES IN ORDER TO LEARN,.......u can avoid similar mitakes to improve your own method
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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COD said:
well now U are talking about recovering from a set back.......REVIEW my previous articles I wrote about that.

AND NO U DONT HAVE TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES IN ORDER TO LEARN,.......u can avoid similar mitakes to improve your own method
May I have a link kind sir? I've improved upon it, I usually realize my mistake and A) have stopped making it or B) cut off contact for atleast 4-5 days.
 

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HMMM CHECK MY PREVIOUS POSTS.................I think its under A-HOLE RECOVERY OR recovering from a set back
 
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