"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Ultimate PUA Skill

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There are quite a few ways to seduce women flooding the internet, most of which conflict with each other. Is there one skill above all others that absolutely has to be in place prior to engaging any set?. Without this one skill set EVERYTHING ELSE WILL BE MIS-ALIGNED.

Before I reveal this obvious mindset skill, lets talk about using any over-saturated tactic/technique. If a female discovers they have been the victim of a covert tactic/technique/canned opener/repetitive cut n paste email enticement, etc. They tend to not feel special and begin to wonder how many others have you used this on. Those feelings can trigger internal disapointement of the old " I can't believe I just fell for that" and eventually lead to an instant loss of interest.

What does one do when they have been called out and labeled a player, asked "are you dating anyone else right now", how many girls are you seeing, etc. Keep in mind that it's very true that a tactic known is a opportunity blown. The key to success should be the path of least resistance. This is where ORIGINALITY can score you points and speaks volumes about your character. Diverting from being a JAG (just another guy) builds confidence especially if you are the inovator.

Naturals have a distinct advantage over a lot of men. Their actions are motivated from within not reguritated material. The reality is not everyone is born a natural. The good news we can strive to be more natural like. So whats the skill I am talking about.........two words......COMMON SENSE. Yup sounds simple but you would be surprised how many guys I see just abandone common sense thinking. C.S. should be the default skill that when all else fails to work we revert back to it.

Some obvious examples would be:

1) knowing when to stop (online, texting, on the phone, in person)

2) being aware of consequences (hitting on women with a jealous boyfriend, seducing married women, not using a condom, getting involved with drama queens, etc)

3) knowing when to roll off, walk away from chics that are too easy, know when to next, etc

Common sense should also kick in when you arrange a date and she says yes too quickly and then a few days later you call her and get her voicemail or she gives you an excuse, etc.

Common sense, an oldschool tactic that so many forget to utilize. It could save you a lot of time, money, frustration, headchaes, worry. It can be used in almost every aspect throughout your lifetime.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What you call common sense, is more like wisdom based on reference experience. Knowing that most guys dont have the reference experience to calibrate effectively and are still working on gaining social intelligence, they gotta go through the motions and fvck it up a few times first. It's part of the learning process and you can't ignore it
 

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COD said:
What does one do when they have been called out and labeled a player, asked "are you dating anyone else right now", how many girls are you seeing, etc.
Good post. Its just a matter of not over thinking everything and many guys fail to do that.



But whats your opinion on what you should do when your called out as a player? Iv heard ****y and funny but thats a terrible idea.


im about to make this question a thread but maybe you can give me a good answer before i have to do that.
 

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COD said:
Some obvious examples would be:

1) knowing when to stop (online, texting, on the phone, in person)

2) being aware of consequences (hitting on women with a jealous boyfriend, seducing married women, not using a condom, getting involved with drama queens, etc)
What if one goes overboard? Perhaps drunk texting a girl they've went on a date or two with? I've had this problem a couple times where I'll be at a party and decide to some drunk texting. I never do sappy love drunk texting, it's more along the lines of, "hey you should cook me dinner sometime" but it's usually garbled in drunk talk.

Is it reversible?
 

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well now U are talking about recovering from a set back.......REVIEW my previous articles I wrote about that.

AND NO U DONT HAVE TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES IN ORDER TO LEARN,.......u can avoid similar mitakes to improve your own method
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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COD said:
well now U are talking about recovering from a set back.......REVIEW my previous articles I wrote about that.

AND NO U DONT HAVE TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES IN ORDER TO LEARN,.......u can avoid similar mitakes to improve your own method
May I have a link kind sir? I've improved upon it, I usually realize my mistake and A) have stopped making it or B) cut off contact for atleast 4-5 days.
 

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HMMM CHECK MY PREVIOUS POSTS.................I think its under A-HOLE RECOVERY OR recovering from a set back
 
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