Some problems I've found with online dating:
I'll start off. Online dating sucks for most guys. If you can photoshop some muscles onto you, you better do it.
1. We end up lowing our standards and settling, while they hold out for their million dollar per day CEO type dream guy.
Women can get a boyfriend in a day or less. They can get laid as quick as ordering a pizza. Most guys can't get a girlfriend, let alone a lay within weeks of trying. Women these days think they're princesses who are entitled to a CEO worth millions and has lots of muscles, mansions, and a Maserati. But this guy hardly exists. The thing is, women get who they WANT. Most guys get who they CAN.
2. Women are never satisfied. With the enormous volumes of messages they receive, they'll always be back online shopping for someone better, no matter how well you click.
This is why you need to get them off the internet quickly. They've got way too many options, even if they got shot in their left eye! Online dating is all about the looks and money. Go shirtless if you got abs, and I've seen successful guys who flash cash land dates off these sites with no problems. Whoever said they don't respond well to these qualities is a bull$h*tter to the 5th power!
3. They're all serial daters, attention wh0res, and players. Even if they weren't before, online dating corrupts them. "I'm new to online dating!" = Another one swallowed into the gutter.
Women always love attention. They know they can have sex and get a man easily.
4. Many of the "ladies" are only looking for a FREE night out. I had one last summer send me an angry 4 text length message rejection because I didn't buy her drinks first date. As soon as they find out you have money, they will ask you to bed with no protection. Many want to be knocked up for child support.
That's their mentality. I've had to say I was going to the bathroom and in actuality, I was leaving to get in my car and drive off. If they don't see that you're rich, that's a turn off. One that can save you some trouble. Case and point, I knew a low-key rich guy who drove a '93 Camry with a broken door handle. The girl was average at best, but kept complaining. And he ditched her ass. He told me that was his date car to screen out golddiggers. He took my advice well. Had he driven his main car (CLS Mercedes) she would've gone for his sperm!
5. 90% of them lie on their profiles. Professions are twisted to make them some kind of "professional" female. Many list "no kids" and "non-smoker", but justify it with "I only smoke when I drink" or other bs excuses. They also lie about their age after they turn 35.
Damn right!
6. Is a dumping ground for: single mothers, gold diggers, ugly obese women using 10 year old photos, family issues, druggies, attention seekers, exhibitionists, sluts needing a baby daddy, bitter divorced sloppy seconds woman with a chip on their shoulder.
And they all think they're entitled to a millionaire hunk CEO! But since he doesn't exist that much, these women go to these sites to scrap for leftovers.
7. If you happen to get a girl off a dating website, don't let your guard down. They are more then likely still in contact with dozens of guys from it. Most are already in relationships to begin with. Hell, some are even on multiple dating sites that you may not even know about.
They are still being contacted by dozens of guys in hopes of female companionship. True otherwise.
Online dating used to be a goldmine too. I miss the old days when quality women were abundant and I could line dates up in my sleep. Now, even with my technique and profile perfected, replies are scarce.
That's just the overpopulation of desperate males making moves. A lot of these guys read these PUA guides and have been given a free pass to bother women out of their league.
In the last year or two, my message volume went from about 20 per day to 20 per month, give or take. If my girlfriend (that I met off pof!) and I split, I just can't see myself going back to that chaos.
Guys are always looking for that easy location for easy women and easy meeting. Clubs nowadays are sausagefests. Online dating is no different.
