The ultimate power grab!!

[DonGorgon]

Ok as you all know most relationships with women are a power struggle and a race to show indifference first so as not to be hurt and to come out "ontop" as they call it..

How many times have we been dumped of suddenly she stops acting cool wen we thought everything was great and she loved us? lol..

Its simple females are usually 3 to 4 steps ahead of us in the game. hence they do most of the dumping and ignoring etc. We can easily turn that table, but it takes bravery strength confidence and at least 3 other females options on had at all times...lol

WHEN ITS ALL GOING GREAT ANDN SHE SEEMS IN LOVE AND IS DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT AND WANTS TO SEE YOU ALL THE TIME, TEH EMOTIONAL PEAK OF THE HONEY MOON PHASE, YOU MUST DUMP HER SUDDENLY WITH NO EXPLANATION FOR 3 DAYS!!!
Then contact her playing the victim and explain that you are just not sure if it can work out!! No be aloof let her call and text you only respond to one quarter of her contact! Sit back and watch her chase. She loves the drama and the instability that you threw upon her and se wants you more than ever.. WHY! cause you dont want her and you dumped her BEFOR she stopped wanting you!

Now you have 90% of the power and you can do what ever you choose just F her, take her back. or what ever you want she will be willing. You will be controlling the game not her

 

[Da Realist]

Sounds like you attract a lot of control freaks.

For real, be somewhat aloof, fun, confident, and a bit senual, and they'll do whatever you want. Keep doing it over time and you won't have to worry about power struggles. I speak from experience because when you start becoming inflexible and worried about control, things fall apart.

 

[DonGorgon]

Sounds like you attract a lot of control freaks.

For real, be somewhat aloof, fun, confident, and a bit senual, and they'll do whatever you want. Keep doing it over time and you won't have to worry about power struggles. I speak from experience because when you start becoming inflexible and worried about control, things fall apart.

I attract college sluts and hood rats.. aint dated a real women in years...lol

 

[Da Realist]

Oh, then I see why you do it. They don't have anything else going on and need the drama.

 

[DonGorgon]

Oh, then I see why you do it. They don't have anything else going on and need the drama.

i guess but i think that most relationships have some power struggle based on value systems i.e. her looks his money ect.

 

[Da Realist]

i guess but i think that most relationships have some power struggle based on value systems i.e. her looks his money ect.

The bad one's do. If two people are strugglinging for power, things aren't secure and it's bound to either fall or require constant energy just to keep things afloat.

The best one's are those that both people have a set niche they fill while have little room in there to buck the other person more to decrease monotomy than just to seize complete control. I think if each person establishes a known boundary, things are relativily smooth sailing. But when you allow something to happen and then all of a sudden snap back to hard, that's when the constant struggle begins.

 

[Ridingthelightning]

This is a horrible idea.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I like this...

But how useful is this in the long run?

 

[Solomon]

I attract college sluts and hood rats.. aint dated a real women in years...lol

hence the advice you giving in this thread , it doesn't surprise me at all

Step your game up

peace