So i was thinking quite a lot about posting this, since everyone here has a different way of approaching the first date.
It would be awesome if u guys could post your way of approaching the first date, i will start with my approach.
What i like to do is when i get a phone number, is to call after 2-4 days even a week some times, depends on my schedule. Usually i'm quite full the whole week.
Then i set a definite date and time in a place, and till then i get out from the phone, usually confident chicks that have high level of interest show on time, other chicks that are a little bit insecure text me a day before to say "Hey are we still on for tonight?" so any other way around it works for me.
I set the date 2-3 days in advance after i call, maybe even 5 days.
After i meet the chick outside the place, i usually like to grab her hand and spin her around and look at her in a weird, sexy way. Its kind of my thing i like to do with chicks something unexpected. But i don't always do it.
Depends how the chick looks at me or if she smiles when she sees me some chicks just come a little bit serious then they get loosen up.
Then i don't touch her if she does not all night or if she gives me the signs, if she breaks eye contact, or if she is distracted in any way, i try to go with chicks that have high level of interest to start with as it makes my life easier.
I never break eye contact.
My conversation is very limited by my side i answer very limited questions and i ask questions mostly they do all of the talking.
I like to switch place within the next 30 minutes. And take her somewhere with my car, not hers and i don't tell her where we are going to go. Depends of the day and night i know my way around the city so i know where to go. Depends also how to girl is on the date.
Some times i may not even consider a second place if the girl is boring, i usually like to go for the kiss on the first date but since some time i stopped doing that, and i noticed it works better, as they text the next day. I usually want to see the signs that she is ready for a kiss if i don't i never do it, i want to be sure.
Sex on the first date is the ultimate, but most chicks have the slut shield, so its usually not easy but some woman do it.
Generally this is my approach of course there is more than that, would be good to see your approach guys.
It would be awesome if u guys could post your way of approaching the first date, i will start with my approach.
What i like to do is when i get a phone number, is to call after 2-4 days even a week some times, depends on my schedule. Usually i'm quite full the whole week.
Then i set a definite date and time in a place, and till then i get out from the phone, usually confident chicks that have high level of interest show on time, other chicks that are a little bit insecure text me a day before to say "Hey are we still on for tonight?" so any other way around it works for me.
I set the date 2-3 days in advance after i call, maybe even 5 days.
After i meet the chick outside the place, i usually like to grab her hand and spin her around and look at her in a weird, sexy way. Its kind of my thing i like to do with chicks something unexpected. But i don't always do it.
Depends how the chick looks at me or if she smiles when she sees me some chicks just come a little bit serious then they get loosen up.
Then i don't touch her if she does not all night or if she gives me the signs, if she breaks eye contact, or if she is distracted in any way, i try to go with chicks that have high level of interest to start with as it makes my life easier.
I never break eye contact.
My conversation is very limited by my side i answer very limited questions and i ask questions mostly they do all of the talking.
I like to switch place within the next 30 minutes. And take her somewhere with my car, not hers and i don't tell her where we are going to go. Depends of the day and night i know my way around the city so i know where to go. Depends also how to girl is on the date.
Some times i may not even consider a second place if the girl is boring, i usually like to go for the kiss on the first date but since some time i stopped doing that, and i noticed it works better, as they text the next day. I usually want to see the signs that she is ready for a kiss if i don't i never do it, i want to be sure.
Sex on the first date is the ultimate, but most chicks have the slut shield, so its usually not easy but some woman do it.
Generally this is my approach of course there is more than that, would be good to see your approach guys.
