The ultimate confidence booster. MUST READ

[BelieveInYourself]

alright just think about this. i'm gonna try to explain this in a very simple way so it'll make perfect sense no matter how insecure you are and how much you don't believe in yourself

let's take a normal day in school. you're walking down the hall and see a girl and think to yourself "i'd like to get to know her" but you never acted on it so nothing ever happened. here's the thing brahs. there's a girl out there that thought the same thing about you. somewhere out there, there was a girl that walked by you and thought to herself "i'd like to get to know that guy" but she never acted on it so nothing happened

you will never know what girl thought that about you unless you act on it to find out. the girl that caught your eye could think to herself "he's too good for me so i'm not gonna say anything" the same way you think to yourself "damn that girl is too hot for a guy like me so i'm not gonna talk to her"

every wonder why a girl you think is so hot and and so beautiful is just average to someone else? it's because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. listen. no matter how much you don't wanna believe it, think about it and it makes perfect sense. if you think a girl is a 10/10 and the rest of the world thinks she's a 6/10 who's to say a girl can't think you're a 10/10 when the rest of the world thinks you're a 6/10? my point is you're never gonna know what girl thinks you're perfect for her if you don't go out and take action. go out there and find that girl that thinks you're a 10/10. she DOES exist. find her.

 

[Doctrine Dark]

Yeah, that was a really good read.

And I've done this countless times. Unfortunately there are still moments where I simply count myself out without considering approach. Regret is a terrible feeling. I hope I don't allow myself to continue experiencing it.

 

[Repentance]

This has got to be one of the best reads I've come across so far on the forums.

And I think it strikes me so much because I think I leave about 4 hb8+'s a week that could have been great potentials, who had made great eye contact, etc, but I had thought "eh, probably wont work/waste of time" and walked away.

College, transportation, and streetlife has me come across many gorgeous beauties, many of which I simply didn't talk to cause of "it might be waste of time" etc.

Thanks for the "reminder" or "wakeup call".

 

[SeymourCake]

All this reminded was, "We adore the ones we like, and ignore the ones who like us."

 

[OC Speedball]

That's why you smile at them. They will smile back 80% of the time, and 50% of the time they blush. This is how you can gauge how easy they will be to approach/how much they might be interested.

Practice making eye contact and smiling at every girl. Even the ugly ones.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Strong username to post content.

 

[IKO69]

The ultimate confidence booster is realizing someday you'll be dead and right before that happens do you want to see and reflect upon an exciting, no limit life or do you want cry yourself to sleep wondering 'what if'? I think we know the answer here. It's not a big deal really whether you succeed, fail- it happens everyday. Chances are you're already good enough. You'd probably surprise yourself if you made the effort.

 

[Veridin]

Strong username to post content.

One. Funny.