"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Ugly Truth ABout Looks

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After much research on the matter details are surprisingly unchanged. Are you ready, sitting down........LOOKS DO MATTER..........well to an extent.

Think of getting concert tickets...........everyone can get them, but GOOD LOOKS are like a backstage pass that give you instant access to the best stuff quickly. You get the hottest chics, hang with the coolest people, you get special treatment, preference over others, everyone thinks you rock, all without ever saying a word. Pretty powerfl stuff.......Thats what looks can do for you. Fine and dandy if you are born with 6 pack abs, killer smile, full head of thick hair, tall, etc. Some go on the workout scence while others go the plastic surgury route.

But lets say you are average or below average...........PLENTY OF GUYS that are sub-par bang hot chics night after night.

The secret..........yep U guessed it the one thing you can sculpt.....personality. When U aint born with it, sorry to say U are going to have to work for it. I know it aint fair, and hurts when U lose out, but you ae going to have to come to terms with your looks and then deal wih it.

There are those alpha dogs that say stuff like Sh!t or get off the pot, in it to win it, theres no room for second best, work hard, play hard WIN or go home, can't handle the heat...........ENOUGH ALREADY.

When you are a ****y superstar you standout.........so much so that people can not relate to you and end up alienating yourself. You have to fit in first, BEFORE you rise to the top. Good leaders are great followers first.......okay where was I..............oh wait I am all over the place.......well its' St.Paddys day and I've been drinking.

let me leave U with this thought...........their magically delicious and when Irish eyes are smiling you kick 'em in the blary stones
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thank you for that rant.

i'll go to the store and buy a can of personality now

Picking up girls for a quick bang is different to finding a girlfriend (duh)

im no expert at pick up, but my adivce to find a girl is to be yourself mainly and throw in some of the game. then you'll be happy with a girl who you like and like you for who you really are. the game part is just to get her to realise she likes you
 

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Sounds like you need some more personality and learn to write some normal english, I stopped reading halfway through because your style of writing sucks. Never consider writing a book.
 

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Oh god !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

for the 10000000th time..

- Good looks enable the quickest cheapest Fs
- The less good looking the longer it takes and more it costs to F
- If you have less looks you need pome of the other factors (money, personality..etc) to compensate.

Thats it ...
 

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Getting a personality and getting better looks are connected. If you workout and feel the new confidence flow through you you also change your personality a little. It is strange how much a healthy body can make your mind healthier and more open/friendly.

Anyone noticed how easy it is to chat people up after you've had a workout. I might be sweaty and dressed in training clothes with holes in them but when I walk the one km home after a good workout the confidence is at 150%.

Edit: added colored text to emphasis the important parts of my post.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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