"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The ugly in-shape girls are the DEVIL

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-Ugly in-shape girls think that just because they are really thin that they are automatically hot. So they view themselves as hot even though they're ugly because of their thin body.

-These girls actually tend to like the really hot guys that get all the girls. They like these kind of guys more than most girls. I think it's because they feel going for these kind of guys will hide their ugliness.

-These girls are more prone to playing games. They want to be more like an in-shape hot girl, so they'll read cosmo mags that tell them to be a bvtch.

-These girls are the most prone to using guys that they don't like because they want to seem like they're more of a hot girl by having guys chase them.

-For those guys who are "lowering their standards", don't think going for the ugly in-shape girls will be easy, it will be just as hard if not harder than going for an in-shape hot girl.

What do you guys think? I know lots of other girls can be likely to do this stuff, but I've noticed that the ugly in-shape ones are the ones that always do it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think these generalizations are counter-productive.
 

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Yeah. Not too sure where you're going with this one, bro. Maybe you've experienced this 2 or 3 times and now you're making a generalization about ALL of them. Maybe some unattractive girl played games with you or used you in some way? I don't know...I'm not a psychologist.

Do unattractive girls with good bodies think they're hotter than they really are? Not that I've noticed.
 

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Iceberg said:
Do unattractive girls with good bodies think they're hotter than they really are? Not that I've noticed.
Well it seems like they think that their hot body makes them a hot girl.
 
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Demystify said:
-Ugly in-shape girls think that just because they are really thin that they are automatically hot. So they view themselves as hot even though they're ugly because of their thin body.

-These girls actually tend to like the really hot guys that get all the girls. They like these kind of guys more than most girls. I think it's because they feel going for these kind of guys will hide their ugliness.

-These girls are more prone to playing games. They want to be more like an in-shape hot girl, so they'll read cosmo mags that tell them to be a bvtch.

-These girls are the most prone to using guys that they don't like because they want to seem like they're more of a hot girl by having guys chase them.

-For those guys who are "lowering their standards", don't think going for the ugly in-shape girls will be easy, it will be just as hard if not harder than going for an in-shape hot girl.

What do you guys think? I know lots of other girls can be likely to do this stuff, but I've noticed that the ugly in-shape ones are the ones that always do it.
Kid, you're starting to annoy me. Looking at your thread history, it is clear that you are a bitter unsuccessful chump, and the worst part of it is, you are this way because you have not truly tried to change yoruself!!

How about you stop THINKING (such as what you are doing in this thread), and start DOING (such as gym, cold approaches, parties, experience, ect ect)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rescue Mission said:
How about you stop THINKING (such as what you are doing in this thread), and start DOING (such as gym, cold approaches, parties, experience, ect ect)
I've been going to the gym for quite some time. I've done hundreds and hundreds of cold approaches (and I've only gotten frustrated over the ugly in-shape girls), I've been to hundreds of parties and bars, and I've had over 5 years of experience
 

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Demystify said:
Well it seems like they think that their hot body makes them a hot girl.
Maybe the one that dumped you and got you all worked up...

But I really don't think this "hypothesis" works for all girls who may not be naturally attractive, but take care of their bodies.

You sound like the fat miserable chicks that go around crying that "ALL men are dogs." You can't make assumptions about all men. Can't make assumptions about all women. It just makes you look weak-minded.
 
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I've been going to the gym for quite some time. I've done hundreds and hundreds of cold approaches (and I've only gotten frustrated over the ugly in-shape girls), I've been to hundreds of parties and bars, and I've had over 5 years of experience
PM me a pic, ill break down for you how to fix your looks
 

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I actually like those chicks. Being born beautiful is luck. To take the time to actually develop your body shows character. It is ****ing hard work, as we are all aware, and shows the desire to actually become a better person and improve your own life.

These are the qualities I admire in people, so those girls are going to draw my attention before other ones do. Honestly I am going to prefer an "ugly" girl who works hard to keep herself in good shape over a cute one who keeps a nice body by starving herself. Girls in the gym that work hard and work intelligently and seem to have some sort of purpose in her life are automatically going to be more attractive to me then the thin ones who you can tell couldn't lift a 10 pound box or run 100 feet without getting winded. Of course, there are a few girls who are simply FAR too ugly to make exceptions for even though they have nice bodies, but I've only met maybe 2-4 of them in my life. Realistically most people fall pretty close to the center of the bell curve.

Honestly the only difference I've noticed in these chicks is that they are interesting to talk to because they actually DO THINGS like train or play a sport. They seem to be the antithesis of the girls who got a good dice roll from the gene pool and eat one meal a day to keep a body that looks pretty decent until you take their pants off and discover cellulite rolls all the way down the back of their legs.
 
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