"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The typical path from AFC to DJ

DanelMadr

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Step Nine

You think you are perfect. You dont need the game, you want to settle down with woman of your dreams. You try to seduce some stranger "good" girls but you burn, because you resemble a Player too much. And after all these girls need a sense of control. Their father was a doormat and they need a doormat to feel secure in relationship.
So you end up with a woman of your age with a child, you know from your office.

O.K. Im just taking a pis*. But maybe not :nervous:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MrNotebook

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Great post...I can totally relate.
 

Deicide

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Wow, I've been stuck on Step 2 for a very long time, probably 2 years or so.
 
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