"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The typical path from AFC to DJ

DanelMadr

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Step Nine

You think you are perfect. You dont need the game, you want to settle down with woman of your dreams. You try to seduce some stranger "good" girls but you burn, because you resemble a Player too much. And after all these girls need a sense of control. Their father was a doormat and they need a doormat to feel secure in relationship.
So you end up with a woman of your age with a child, you know from your office.

O.K. Im just taking a pis*. But maybe not :nervous:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MrNotebook

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Great post...I can totally relate.
 

Deicide

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Wow, I've been stuck on Step 2 for a very long time, probably 2 years or so.
 
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