"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The type of women you will get if you are AFC ...

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Note the following MSN conversation ..
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Kitty says:
blah i need to get happy
Stick Action Stormy says:

Stick Action Stormy says:
everyone could have a little happiness
Kitty says:
yea..right now i have none
Stick Action Stormy says:
why not?
Kitty says:
eh. i haven't talked to blake since monday so i called his house and found out he got his cell taken away cuz he was talking to me so much...blah
Stick Action Stormy says:
nevermind
Stick Action Stormy says:
*falls asleep*
Kitty says:
.......
Kitty says:
i don't fvcking care if you don't care about what i just said...you could at least try to cheer me up!!!!
Kitty says:
damn unemotional guy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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it's surprsing that she'd even try that **** with a DJ
 
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Originally posted by kiz
it's surprsing that she'd even try that **** with a DJ
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Actually, a DJ would have little to do with a woman like this to begin with. Plenty of fish in the sea if you ask me, why waste it on a flounder or similar bottom dweller when you can save bait for a big hunking piece of tuna fish.
 
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Wait, he fell asleep listening to her emo-babble and he's AFC? I can see where he'd be not so DJ by even knowing this attn ***** but he's far from AFC. Maybe I read into this the wrong way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by The Bartender
Wait, he fell asleep listening to her emo-babble and he's AFC? I can see where he'd be not so DJ by even knowing this attn ***** but he's far from AFC. Maybe I read into this the wrong way.
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I think you read this thread wrong. He's saying Kitty is the type of girl you'd get if you were AFC (i.e, she is probably demanding her AFC bf Blake call her everydsay and he is happy to comply). I'm guessing Stick Action Stormy is rgeere and he's just talking to her. He (Stick Action Stormy) doesn't allow her to turn him into her emotional tampon because she wants to b1tch about not speaking to Blake for a while.

At least that's my interpretation, which I think is correct.
 
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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
I think you read this thread wrong. He's saying Kitty is the type of girl you'd get if you were AFC (i.e, she is probably demanding her AFC bf Blake call her everydsay and he is happy to comply). I'm guessing Stick Action Stormy is rgeere and he's just talking to her. He (Stick Action Stormy) doesn't allow her to turn him into her emotional tampon because she wants to b1tch about not speaking to Blake for a while.

At least that's my interpretation, which I think is correct.
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Ok, yeah i read that wrong...thanks I can see the AFC guy now. If anyone gets their phone taken away for talking to ONE girl too much, they need at least one testicle lobbed off.
 
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Originally posted by The Bartender
Wait, he fell asleep listening to her emo-babble and he's AFC? I can see where he'd be not so DJ by even knowing this attn ***** but he's far from AFC. Maybe I read into this the wrong way.
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No, you read into it the right way ... I came into the realization that she was an emo-babbling attention ***** who wants me around to make her feel good like I was some sort of psychodelic drug.

I've done similar things to girls in real life who start to be this way. She's the first to have the guts to tell me off, and that was over the internet. But in real life they figure out real quick that I am not someone that should be used in this way.
 
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Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
I think you read this thread wrong. He's saying Kitty is the type of girl you'd get if you were AFC (i.e, she is probably demanding her AFC bf Blake call her everydsay and he is happy to comply). I'm guessing Stick Action Stormy is rgeere and he's just talking to her. He (Stick Action Stormy) doesn't allow her to turn him into her emotional tampon because she wants to b1tch about not speaking to Blake for a while.

At least that's my interpretation, which I think is correct.
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BINGO!
 
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Originally posted by rgeere

Stick Action Stormy says:
why not?
Kitty says:
eh. i haven't talked to blake since monday so i called his house and found out he got his cell taken away cuz he was talking to me so much...blah
Stick Action Stormy says:
nevermind
Stick Action Stormy says:
*falls asleep*
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This part is gold! It's so a$$hole (in a good way) and I love it. I really wish I saw the light 3 years ago when I was used in a similar way. That would have been sweet looking back with my new perspective. Well the next time it happens..... :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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