"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The two things that have helped me the most so far

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Amo

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1) Think and so you shall become. Assume the sale.
2) Rejection is always better than regret.
3) Instinct. When you embrace it, it is surprisingly correct.
 

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amohield posted his own personal epiphanies. I like that direction for this thread.

Mine:
1)Make a confident start with people and they will treat you as though you are a confident person
2)Social proof is huge. It entirely changes how people interact with you, all it takes is one bold step to begin then continuing to knock down the dominoes.
3)There's always another girl.
 

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LearningSlowly said:
There's always another girl.
There's always another girl.
There's always another girl.
There's always another girl.
There's always another girl.
There's always another girl.
There's always another girl.

Understand.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

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