The Two Step Process!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!

[ALPHAROMEO]

go to this chick with your shopping list "
"excuse what s this supposed to be ? ( you point to an obscure foreign food on the list actually it s a well known FRENCH cheese )

" actually it s a cheese "
she LL usually take you to the cheese counter

on the way there you can always ask her Qs about that particular cheese

she leaves

you get back to her after two minutes and you point to another strange product on the list

again she takes you the place where this product belongs
YOU VE NOW CREATED SOME INTIMACY BETWEEN YOU 2



I call the process THE 2 STEP PROCESS

 

[pipe007]

your tips are interesting, but I don't believe on them
because I think that you make them up on the spot and you dont even test them...

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

test it

the proof of the pudding is in the eating
go and test the two step approach by yourself and get back to me
i ve tested it many times and it s worked quite well

 

[pipe007]

lol no thanks, sounds too cheesy of a style

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Why don't you just approach? You just keep making this crap to make social interactions less fearful. Only when you make a habit of hitting the fear head on will you see massive change.

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

preplanned openers

norwegian
i disagree with yoiur approaching philosophy

oftentimes i am tired or not in the mood to approach hence my preplanned openers and contingencies as i call them

again in the past i ve opened up women at my mall with
sort of spontaneous openers didn t know what to say afterwards


i can t waste my time trying to find on the fly openers

i assimilate sarging to stand comedy you ve learned your lines and you can freeflow between lines if yoiu feel like it , if you are on good form but you need a framework

i am a teacher i teach conversational FRENCH i AM NOT ALWAYS THAT INSPIRED WHEN I HAVE TO FACE A NEW STUDENTS SO I HAVE MY FIRST TEN questionsq prepared AND IT USUALLY HAPPENS
Same with professional interviewers like KING tHEY THROW NOTES DOWN I ON PAPER AND THEN THE OPPORTUNITY ARISES THEY THROW THEMSELVES IN THE DEEP END


When i go out sarging i ve got to approach 4 women that s my mission no time to stall out i want results !!!!!

 

[terran2k]

I can see it.

guy: hey, do you know what this is supposed to be?
girl: nope
guy: *frozen bc it didn't go as he preplanned, wishes he could post on Sosuave.com and get an answer of what to say next**stands awkwardly for a few*
girl: adios!
guy: *thinks: if I say bye to her now, would I be showing weakness*

 

[pipe007]

OP you are not getting positive feedback so far.

get out of head and THINK, maybe there is a reason people are not agreeing with you.
maybe you don't see it, but we do.

 

[Darth_Qurashi]

hehe wat if she doesn't know lol

gotta make sure she's interestd too, cuz some girls mite just find that annoying. especially when it's so obvious ur tryin too hard, they automatically assume ur some kind of player that planned this all out.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Nothing wrong with being a try-hard. No matter what you guys say, we all were try hards at one point. Some of us are, some of us are so experienced that we can't understand how we "DONT GET IT." And again, some of us don't do ****.
But romeo, I disagree again. You say you don't have time for opening without lines? Well think again, because you are wasting time making up lines. Lines can be good now and again, if you want to force a sh1t test and inspire attraction the first 30 seconds of a conversation. However, there is a reason that the most advanced guys, the people that have become naturals, advice against using lines.

When you use lines, you are taking value and you need validation to keep the interaction going and your state up. It's not good, and it will not give much results. Imagine going up to a woman and saying "Hi, I'm alpharomeo." And fully expecting her to like you for you?
You can open with anything, what matters is you. Of course we haven't accessed the self-esteem yet, or maybe gotten big enough situational confidence to feel like we can do this with full belief, but it's doable. It's all about facing the fear and doing it. Worst case scenario anyone?

The self is always coming through, if you just make a habit of approaching girls without lines, it will become second nature. When you really have confidence and state, you can literally open with anything. Jump up to them and say "I'm an elephant", use your arms to pretend to be an elephant while roaring like a lion. Take action, go for what you want and remember
Rejection is better than regret.

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

Letter To Norwrgian

norwe

for a 15 YEAR OLD KID , you re pretty slim ( smart ) as they say in afrikaans

but what is a smart guy like doing on an A F C site like this one ( not a pick up line obviuosly )?

 

[mikeyb]

This canned stuff will only take you so far. For a two-step process, how about this, it's just as likely to work:

Step 1: Hi, I'm [insert your name here]
Girl: Hi [name], I'm [her name]
Step 2: That's the sexiest thing I've ever heard all day. Let's go back to mine for a quick one.