"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Two sisters...from one to the other.

AAAgent

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well i am good friends with the older sister, she's does not fit the requirements that i want as a plate or gf. i tried to take the friendship one step further but she has a boyfriend and is hinting as messing around with me which i do not want. All her friends like me and her younger sister thinks im cool. I have hooked up with the older sister.

The younger sister, is alot closer to what im looking for. a girl that is happy with who she is and knows how to take care of herself. The thing is i just last week i asked the older sister if she thought there could be something between us and she said yes. I thought she broke up with her bf but i found out apparently they are still together and she still hasn't told me and act's like she's single. (always does that, and i don't want a girl like that)

Her younger sister knows that the older one is into me and she doesn't really care, but she's been the only one that i've met these past few months that's even worth my attention. i was thinking of casual asking her out to lunch or maybe stopping by her work and chill with her during her lunch break. I really have no clue, but i know this will get around to the rest of the group and i don't know how this will pan out.

suggestions

and no, i don't want both. It would also be tough to get the younger sister to agree with that anyway, she has a stronger personality.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JDA70

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GO hook up with the younger one and look for some IOI's
If you get some you golden, good to go, right on.

i was thinking of casual asking her out to lunch
Pick something that's more fun.
Lunch is boring.
 

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i was just out with her sister twice in the last week... they all know.

i don't know how she would see it if i asked her out on a date.

imagine you just hooked up with a girl and kinda are interested, your boi knows, then that girl ask's your boi out to a one on one date. If your boi said yes then he's not your boi.

This is even more fvcked up cuz its her blood sister.

I'm already prepared for a few rejections at first, but i want to approach it in a way where it doesn't make me look like an ******* or trying to get the sisters fighting each other.

i've had two girls that had beef with each other...too much drama and it was hard to go to social outings when i finally chose one of them because the other girl would only make moves when i wasn't looking.
 

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Life is supossed to be fun. SO fvck it ask her out
and let the drama unfold. You'll be alright.
Also be looking for other girls to date case this
one don't work out. Line them up.
 

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i've decided that the younger sister is a no no for now and since i'm not approaching any of them anymore, i'll probably stop hanging out with them unless they call me out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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