"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Truth

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I see alot of people on these forms who are amazing. They learn from everything, getting better and better every day. These people are true Don juans. They enjoy their lives, and they always live them to the fullest

Unfortunatly, though, i also see the opposite. Often people are searching for an answer. They look more and more, trying to find something, even though they arent even sure what they are looking for.

The Problem is...

These people are looking for an excuse. They keep searching more in the outside world trying to find something to point their fingers at. Its a way to keep happy... in a depressing sort of way.

The truth is in yourself. Stop searching. The key to this chest of knowledge lies within the head of yours. Its not someone elses fault you didnt snag that #... it's yours.

I know this because i've gone through it over and over again. Thing is... I never quite realized it. You gotta take responsibility and the pains that go with it, or you'll never improve. I just wanted to bring this stuff into light.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Debonaire

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THANK YOU!

finally, somebody wrote whats wrong with this forum in plain ole' english.

most of the weekend warrior djs on this site talk about this or that aspect of djing, giving advice to others that they themselves barely understand. by doing this they convince themselves that they are getting better at the game just by typing some useless crap into a computer.

what you guys fail to understand is that its simply not enough. you ARE NOT getting any better by sitting there reading this, and you ARE NOT getting any better by spewing out the same bible material that you have had in turn spewed onto you. This, as souperman says, is just an excuse you make for yourself to pretend that your improving in a meaningful way. your not

go out, try new things. improve yourselves because this site is only the door, YOU have to open it

as my signature says, DJing is 10% knowledge, 15% creativity and 75% grabbing-your-balls-and-taking-charge

GRAB YOUR BALLS TODAY!
 

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right on man. Its called SELF-improvement for a reason. Also, forget this grab your balls ****. Live every day exactly how you want it. However you want it.
 

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defintely important to get the experience before during and after usinf the forum. This thread goes into the arguement of why all the great posters are gone cuz thewy are putting into effect that which they have learned. ON the other hand though, it doesn't matter if you are DJ, Senior DJ, masture DJ, Senior citizen Dj, Minor DJ(I'm making most of these up.) sometime people who are new to the forum do get enlightened ideas, and that shouldn't be put down.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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souporman

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Originally posted by wavejams007
sometime people who are new to the forum do get enlightened ideas, and that shouldn't be put down.
Of course not, people need to come here to learn what do in the field before they do it.

My post may have been misinturpeted by many people though, i ment that people need to take responsibility instead of finding excuses and blaming their actions on other things. Not nessacarily just getting out into the field.
 

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Originally posted by souporman
Of course not, people need to come here to learn what do in the field before they do it.

My post may have been misinturpeted by many people though, i ment that people need to take responsibility instead of finding excuses and blaming their actions on other things. Not nessacarily just getting out into the field.
Agreed.:)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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