The Truth Will Set You Free

[Urbanyst]

This has been a year of transformation for me. I learned so much about women and myself and managed to sleep with more girls this year than any year before.

There are two main differences between Urbanyst 2017 and Urbanyst every year before:

1. Urbanyst 2017 mostly cares about MONEY
2. Urbanyst 2017 does not use "GAME"

I started really getting laid when I dropped all the bullsh*t and started being just real and genuine with women. No complex sh*t to remember. No special "lines" or games. I just keep it real and try to have fun with it.

If I think a girl is HOT I say so. If I want to f*ck on the first or second date I go for it. If I want to text her at 3am on a Saturday I do it. If I don't feel like answering a call I ignore it. No stupid rules.

Basically.. I act the same way I act with my male friends. I try to have a good time and show the woman basic respect and kindness. Only difference is the seduction. But HONESTY is my baseline. And I have never felt more free in my life.

*I'm not constantly calculating my next "move" with a girl. I'm not trying to present some fraudulent "swagger" personality.
*I'm not on the edge of me seat wondering if a woman will respond to me.
*I'm not trying to convince a woman I'm better than someone else.

None of that sh*t. Because honestly.. after you've f*cked enough women.. you realize they are not worth that level of effort and you feel like a fool for working so hard to impress them in the past.

The market is trash and 99% of the girls you date will not become LTR's beyond a few months or years. And the outcome will be the same no matter how FAKE you act to attract a woman. So what is all the fuss about? Just have fun.

 

[user43770]

You and money again, huh? Lol

Game is not a set of rules you have to follow - it's a mind-frame that has also gathered experience.

Any male mind that has gathered experience will tell you that you can't act around women the same as you do around men. It's a recipe for failure.

If you want to get laid, sometimes you're going to have to hold your tongue. And especially in this "trash market." Women have more options than ever, so don't say something that you know she's gonna hate. This should be obvious, but apparently it isn't any more.

 

[The Duke]

When I finally started behaving this way, I didn't get as many girls. However, the ones I did get were far less work, more into me, and stuck around longer. The net gain was better use of my time and more sechs on a regular basis.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

This has been a year of transformation for me. I learned so much about women and myself and managed to sleep with more girls this year than any year before.

There are two main differences between Urbanyst 2017 and Urbanyst every year before:

1. Urbanyst 2017 mostly cares about MONEY
2. Urbanyst 2017 does not use "GAME"

I started really getting laid when I dropped all the bullsh*t and started being just real and genuine with women. No complex sh*t to remember. No special "lines" or games. I just keep it real and try to have fun with it.

If I think a girl is HOT I say so. If I want to f*ck on the first or second date I go for it. If I want to text her at 3am on a Saturday I do it. If I don't feel like answering a call I ignore it. No stupid rules.

Basically.. I act the same way I act with my male friends. I try to have a good time and show the woman basic respect and kindness. Only difference is the seduction. But HONESTY is my baseline. And I have never felt more free in my life.

*I'm not constantly calculating my next "move" with a girl. I'm not trying to present some fraudulent "swagger" personality.
*I'm not on the edge of me seat wondering if a woman will respond to me.
*I'm not trying to convince a woman I'm better than someone else.

None of that sh*t. Because honestly.. after you've f*cked enough women.. you realize they are not worth that level of effort and you feel like a fool for working so hard to impress them in the past.

The market is trash and 99% of the girls you date will not become LTR's beyond a few months or years. And the outcome will be the same no matter how FAKE you act to attract a woman. So what is all the fuss about? Just have fun.

Sounds like you're operating in your own frame, which is probably the single most important thing a man can do.

If you haven't already, check out therationalmale.com

Congratulations on your year.

-Augustus-

 

[Urbanyst]

You and money again, huh? Lol

Game is not a set of rules you have to follow - it's a mind-frame that has also gathered experience.

Any male mind that has gathered experience will tell you that you can't act around women the same as you do around men. It's a recipe for failure.

If you want to get laid, sometimes you're going to have to hold your tongue. And especially in this "trash market." Women have more options than ever, so don't say something that you know she's gonna hate. This should be obvious, but apparently it isn't any more.

I don't think you read my thread. I said I act the same way "EXCEPT FOR SEDUCTION".

No its not a "recipe for failure" unless you are low VALUE and/or have a very unattractive personality lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

When I finally started behaving this way, I didn't get as many girls. However, the ones I did get were far less work, more into me, and stuck around longer. The net gain was better use of my time and more sechs on a regular basis.

Yep.

For quick lays being a fraud works better for quantity. But for quality, and a better dating experience, you are better off being as real as you can.

But you need VALUE or nothing matters.

 

[guru1000]

Yes. Be authentic in "game"... absolutely. But don't confuse this with divulging things about yourself or your past, that she can foreseeably use against you.

Women are fickle. The more knowledge you empower her with, the more leverage she has against you (i.e., business matters, assets, past transgressions, family & friend nuances), in the context of an LTR.

Men, stay empowered.

 

[Urbanyst]

Yes. Be authentic in "game"... absolutely. But don't confuse this with divulging things about yourself or your past, that she can foreseeably use against you.

Women are fickle. The more knowledge you empower her with, the more leverage she has against you (i.e., business matters, assets, past transgressions, family & friend nuances), in the context of an LTR.

Men, stay empowered.

This is actually the best argument for being a fraud I've seen here in a while lol.

If women will use what they know about you to screw you over.. you might be better off lying to them.

 

[derby1]

id also like to add to OP ive added some traits to my behaviour ie i dont leave the house unless i look well presented and i compliment women on there clothes choice i did not realise the power of the latter, Not there looks there clothes choice...bang rate up 30% last two month

 

[Mr Wright]

I think you've nailed it in the sense that you concentrate on money. Women are into guys who are more into themselves than the woman, hence why narcissists do well. In your case, you're more into your money and accruing it so your vibe is going to be more aloof. That's attractive.

I don't get why you're so against game because it sounds like you have it. It's not about lines and running patterns and crap like that, its about living in your own world and doing what you want. Once you basically give yourself permission to act as you feel, you start to see the world to change around you. You become the subject instead of the object and you control your mind and shape your direction. As you said, being free is the best. Women can instinctively smell that positivity and it's catnip to them.

The market is trash and 99% of the girls you date will not become LTR's beyond a few months or years. And the outcome will be the same no matter how FAKE you act to attract a woman. So what is all the fuss about? Just have fun.

Once I properly unplugged from social expectations, this is what I found. I'm perfectly fine with being single for the foreseeable future, it's going to take something special for me to give up this freedom.

 

[user43770]

I don't think you read my thread. I said I act the same way "EXCEPT FOR SEDUCTION".

No its not a "recipe for failure" unless you are low VALUE and/or have a very unattractive personality lol.

Except for seduction lol. That's a pretty big disclaimer.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

This has been a year of transformation for me. I learned so much about women and myself and managed to sleep with more girls this year than any year before.

There are two main differences between Urbanyst 2017 and Urbanyst every year before:

1. Urbanyst 2017 mostly cares about MONEY
2. Urbanyst 2017 does not use "GAME"

I started really getting laid when I dropped all the bullsh*t and started being just real and genuine with women. No complex sh*t to remember. No special "lines" or games. I just keep it real and try to have fun with it.

If I think a girl is HOT I say so. If I want to f*ck on the first or second date I go for it. If I want to text her at 3am on a Saturday I do it. If I don't feel like answering a call I ignore it. No stupid rules.

Basically.. I act the same way I act with my male friends. I try to have a good time and show the woman basic respect and kindness. Only difference is the seduction. But HONESTY is my baseline. And I have never felt more free in my life.

*I'm not constantly calculating my next "move" with a girl. I'm not trying to present some fraudulent "swagger" personality.
*I'm not on the edge of me seat wondering if a woman will respond to me.
*I'm not trying to convince a woman I'm better than someone else.

None of that sh*t. Because honestly.. after you've f*cked enough women.. you realize they are not worth that level of effort and you feel like a fool for working so hard to impress them in the past.

The market is trash and 99% of the girls you date will not become LTR's beyond a few months or years. And the outcome will be the same no matter how FAKE you act to attract a woman. So what is all the fuss about? Just have fun.

I'm interested to know how you use money?

Also, how do you meet most of them? Is it primarily OLD, social circles, bars?

 

[derby1]

I'm interested to know how you use money?

i think youve took this in the wrong sense, i believe although OP is more bothered about MONEY,, the point of the post is hes bothered about himself
ie: a few of my exes stay in touch with me if i show interest in there life they go quiet for a week, if i keep the text conversation a little selfish THEY COME ROUND TO BANG....cause there ****ty brains cant understand why IDGAF about them

I have a friend who does everything taught on this website without even knowing it,bangs different women every week...interestingly he would never do "anything for a woman" either.... there trash to him, he replies to texts about 2 days later, women are really low priority to him, they worship him

 

[Murk]

I'd call that just doing you, which in itself is game, it's natural and you're just doing you. Well done 10/10.

 

[exhausted]

This is actually the best argument for being a fraud I've seen here in a while lol.

If women will use what they know about you to screw you over.. you might be better off lying to them.

Like what could they use to screw u over?

 

[Urbanyst]

I'm interested to know how you use money?

Also, how do you meet most of them? Is it primarily OLD, social circles, bars?

Cold approach, social circle, OLD, bars, all of the above.

Women simply prefer guys with MONEY over guys without it. You don't have to use it. Women just have to know to have it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Cold approach, social circle, OLD, bars, all of the above.

Women simply prefer guys with MONEY over guys without it. You don't have to use it. Women just have to know to have it.

How do you let them know you have it? Do you drive a nice car?

What's your age?

 

[Urbanyst]

How do you let them know you have it? Do you drive a nice car?

What's your age?

Lol.

Dude.. how many times are you going to ask the same question?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Lol.

Dude.. how many times are you going to ask the same question?

You've never answered it.

 

[Urbanyst]

You've never answered it.

I answered it several times.

Maybe you didn't like the answer, but that doesn't matter.