She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I tried my best to watch that tv series but could not stand the endless talking and drama...the only series about outlaw criminals who spend more time doing introspection and assuring women than doing criminal stuff.Die Hard said:Mad Men and Don Draper? I'll take Sons of Anarchy and Jax Teller, thank you...
loveshogun said:Really? I kinda saw men - specifically white men - as always being on top of every other group (especially women) on TV.
That might just be me. But if you made a list of times men are debased on TV, I could probably come up with 2 examples of minorities and women being debased for your 1.
I don't usually disagree with you much, Arcbound, but on this one, I don't think we'll see eye to eye.
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This quote raises a spectre in me, that I get seriously irritated by. Fair play to all masculinity, but I really do believe that the liberal media promote only positive/masculine images of minority male groups, certainly here in England.
Its like because we have such race problems, white males have to bend over backwards to be "gentlemen" and accepting and not brutish, or cant ever be patriotic because thats "not on". WELL FUKK THOSE FUKKIN CUUNTZ. It just disturbs me at seeing the pussification of men; very disturbing indeed as I come from a line of soldiers/ warriors who would turn in their graves at seeing their descendants completely wacked out with spin/bull****/manipulating policies from goverments/thinktanks/big business/ "educators".....
How did it get to this.....
How do we get our pride back......
Cry about imaginary disadvantages some more?TonyBaloney said:How do we get our pride back......
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.