"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The truth about VALUE

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Most men focus on value only in regard to attracting women and proving they have something to offer her. This is the game of the co-dependent beta loser who places female approval in the same category as oxygen.

The real game (the game the alpha plays) is the game of true value. True value is what gives a man freedom and abundance.

So what does this all mean? What it means is the more you are needed and depended upon in this world.. the more freedom you have. Why are some people above the law? Why can some people get away with almost anything? It comes down to value. When people (or even society) need you badly.. they will tolerate your crap. They will bend over backwards to please you.. and you can make almost any demands you want.

The world cares only about the value you bring to it. Similar to a work environment. The more rare your skills.. the more money you can demand... AND the more freedom you have to work where you want and with who you want.

The reason women are so free in modern times is because they have lost their dependence on men. Now desperate co-dependent betas have become emotionally and sexually dependent on women.. thus setting women free and placing men in chains. Modern men are too dependent on social image, female validation, and fitting in. There is more to life than enslaving yourself to a woman, or even a religion. But oddly enough, it seems that most men are more than willing to be slaves. They desperately seek meaning in their lives and some siren song to follow. They want to be consumers, converts, or followers. They want to be part of the herd, part of the flock, have an identity and "fit in" with everyone else. It is the herd mentality. And sadly, most men think they are being "rugged individuals" based on what herd they decide to join. :crackup:

If you're part of a herd.. then you're not free.. nore are you that valuable.

Which is why I preach devaluing women, being independent, focusing on education, investing money and gaining wisdom. These are the tools of the alpha that grant him his independence. He wants women, but doesn't need them. So he is free while the women are dependent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poon King said:
Most men focus on value only in regard to attracting women and proving they have something to offer her. This is the game of the co-dependent beta loser who places female approval in the same category as oxygen.
Value attracts women and there is nothing wrong with that. Do you think valuable men won't use value to get pvssy? That does not make you a beta loser.


Poon King said:
The real game (the game the alpha plays) is the game of true value. True value is what gives a man freedom and abundance.
Are you mistaking fake value for true value?

Poon King said:
So what does this all mean? What it means is the more you are needed and depended upon in this world.. the more freedom you have.
Some women depend on beta men. Does that make him a valuable alpha full of freedom? No.


Poon King said:
Why are some people above the law? Why can some people get away with almost anything? It comes down to value.
More like the connections you have with high people in your pocket.


Poon King said:
When people (or even society) need you badly.. they will tolerate your crap. They will bend over backwards to please you.. and you can make almost any demands you want.
Wrong. Some women need men to survive until they find a better man to do same thing for them.


Poon King said:
Which is why I preach devaluing women
Powerful men don't devalue anybody. Why would you when you are more powerful than another man or woman?

Only a weak beta devalues another person to get on their level since that man has no power or value of his own...think about it.
 

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You think alphas play games?:eek: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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