"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Truth About The Game

Mission

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We are all familiar with alot of what has been posted on this site and others when it comes to dealing with women. There are thousands of tactics, lines, techniques, you name it and some "guru" has come up with it. However, let me ask you something, do you think that people who are "natural" are born that way? NO, they are not, the reason they appear to be natural is because they have put time and effort into figuring out how to win over women. I am going to tell you a quick story, and pay attention to what happens.

There is a guy, he is going from junior high school (grade 9) into senior high (10 - 12). He has been in private school his whole life, his graduating class in grade 9 was 35 kids, and he was still a virgin, he is small, thin, half asian, but at least somewhat attractive. In grade 10 he went into a school of 2,000 kids and didn't know a single person, all his former friends from his private school abandoned him in search of "cooler" people at this new, bigger school. He had to start from scratch, make all new friends, so he set out to do just that, he talked to everyone in his classes regardless of status, talked to girls, was touchy/feely with them, and most of all, he did his own thing. This guy now has more success with women than anybody I know, he literally knows girls all over town who send him text messages requesting quickees. So why the success, it is because he meets everyone he can, it opens doors, he involves girls in his day to day life (coffee, errands etc). He is also one of the most well-known and popular kids at school.

This kid is my best friend, I have known him through this whole process, while I was involved with a girlfriend I missed everything he had done. You see, there are 4 of us, and we are all now naturals, none of us started out this way, in fact we all started off a bit geeky in junior high. We all do what we want all the time, and we constantly are banging girls, because each of us in our own way went out and learned how to be friendly, how to converse and meet people, and we feed off each others knowledge. Of course having 4 guys all of whom I would consider alpha, can cause occasional problems. The truth of about the game guys, is that you just have to play it, you have to live life. Don't cross your arms and keep your mouth shut, talk to randoms, do not care what people think of you, I promise you will be more successful than trying to absorb thousands of words of information from this site. We all have the potential within us. I want you to all go out there, and just try talking to people, and you will see yourself develop into a "natural"
We are all naturals, only some of us have not developed fully.

--Mission
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dogfish

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he did his own thing.

that's the essence of most of the tips here.
 

Bvbidd

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shydude said:
The secret is confidence! :)
Bull****.. that's no secret. That's obviously not everything.. Nasty old homeless rapists are confident.. that alone proves your point wrong.

You have to have the looks and personanilty. There are no shortcuts.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah but even if homeless rapists are confident, they are lacking in 10 other areas, it is obviously a combination of some style, being groomed, being an alpha, and everything else.

--Mission (is drunk)
 

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I'm confident. But I'm also hot, and have a great personality, and good conversation skills, and all sorts of things.
 

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Yet another thread saying "Forget the tips on this site, just get out there and practice!" Applause, applause, this is cool, the internet is nerdy.

Yes, most of the work is about meeting women and practicing. We know that, no need to grab some cheap score by pointing it out as if it was the latest news - yet again.

However, no, it is not true that that's all there is to it. There is theory, which will help you when you practice. Theory and practice go hand in hand, even if one part should be much more time-consuming than the other.

Understanding some basic truths about women, that some will have a hunch of but few will put into words, is usable. Understanding some things you could do, now that you know those basic truths, is also usable. Then you go out and practice, trying and modifying the theory, incorporating it in your natural style.

Well, So Suave has helped me score more anyway - it didn't do all the work, but it did some of it. I don't think I'm the only one with that experience.
 

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hehehe the classic case, somewhat similar to my case, but right at the moment i am in developments, i was a geek in my old school, everyone hated me and i had no friends at all. Now i am in college, people love me here, also i have so much confidence with HBs now that they check me out without me even noticing them, for eg i was on the bus today and this HB8 just couldnt stop staring and me, obviously she wanted abit of flrting but i was having none of it, hahah.
Hvm, i will stop gloating now, sry guys, the good cycle is here, instead of turning from a AFC to a jerk, just turn into a DJ.
 

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you lot are insecure, immature weeners, especially that Bvbidd, he says the same sh.it every day of his boring, virgin life
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hey man read the rules, it says we couldnt flame new DJs, so follow it man, this site is for giving tips and help for AFCs, so you shouldnt diss them like that, its out dude.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey man read the rules, it says we couldnt flame new DJs, so follow it man, this site is for giving tips and help for AFCs, so you shouldnt diss them like that, its out dude.
fair enuf but he does do my head in and he probably is a virgin...
 

Mission

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Yeah but some of my best friends are virgins, even those who get tons of girls. So first of all that is no indication of their knowledge, and secondofall you are the bigger tool for giving people **** because you think they are virgins, some people choose to be virgins. So show a little bit of respect towards other people's values. Even though I love sex, I never enforce it on my virgin friends as a social norm to have sex.

--Mission
 
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