"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Truth About The Game

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We are all familiar with alot of what has been posted on this site and others when it comes to dealing with women. There are thousands of tactics, lines, techniques, you name it and some "guru" has come up with it. However, let me ask you something, do you think that people who are "natural" are born that way? NO, they are not, the reason they appear to be natural is because they have put time and effort into figuring out how to win over women. I am going to tell you a quick story, and pay attention to what happens.

There is a guy, he is going from junior high school (grade 9) into senior high (10 - 12). He has been in private school his whole life, his graduating class in grade 9 was 35 kids, and he was still a virgin, he is small, thin, half asian, but at least somewhat attractive. In grade 10 he went into a school of 2,000 kids and didn't know a single person, all his former friends from his private school abandoned him in search of "cooler" people at this new, bigger school. He had to start from scratch, make all new friends, so he set out to do just that, he talked to everyone in his classes regardless of status, talked to girls, was touchy/feely with them, and most of all, he did his own thing. This guy now has more success with women than anybody I know, he literally knows girls all over town who send him text messages requesting quickees. So why the success, it is because he meets everyone he can, it opens doors, he involves girls in his day to day life (coffee, errands etc). He is also one of the most well-known and popular kids at school.

This kid is my best friend, I have known him through this whole process, while I was involved with a girlfriend I missed everything he had done. You see, there are 4 of us, and we are all now naturals, none of us started out this way, in fact we all started off a bit geeky in junior high. We all do what we want all the time, and we constantly are banging girls, because each of us in our own way went out and learned how to be friendly, how to converse and meet people, and we feed off each others knowledge. Of course having 4 guys all of whom I would consider alpha, can cause occasional problems. The truth of about the game guys, is that you just have to play it, you have to live life. Don't cross your arms and keep your mouth shut, talk to randoms, do not care what people think of you, I promise you will be more successful than trying to absorb thousands of words of information from this site. We all have the potential within us. I want you to all go out there, and just try talking to people, and you will see yourself develop into a "natural"
We are all naturals, only some of us have not developed fully.

--Mission
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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he did his own thing.

that's the essence of most of the tips here.
 

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shydude said:
The secret is confidence! :)
Bull****.. that's no secret. That's obviously not everything.. Nasty old homeless rapists are confident.. that alone proves your point wrong.

You have to have the looks and personanilty. There are no shortcuts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah but even if homeless rapists are confident, they are lacking in 10 other areas, it is obviously a combination of some style, being groomed, being an alpha, and everything else.

--Mission (is drunk)
 

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I'm confident. But I'm also hot, and have a great personality, and good conversation skills, and all sorts of things.
 

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Yet another thread saying "Forget the tips on this site, just get out there and practice!" Applause, applause, this is cool, the internet is nerdy.

Yes, most of the work is about meeting women and practicing. We know that, no need to grab some cheap score by pointing it out as if it was the latest news - yet again.

However, no, it is not true that that's all there is to it. There is theory, which will help you when you practice. Theory and practice go hand in hand, even if one part should be much more time-consuming than the other.

Understanding some basic truths about women, that some will have a hunch of but few will put into words, is usable. Understanding some things you could do, now that you know those basic truths, is also usable. Then you go out and practice, trying and modifying the theory, incorporating it in your natural style.

Well, So Suave has helped me score more anyway - it didn't do all the work, but it did some of it. I don't think I'm the only one with that experience.
 

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hehehe the classic case, somewhat similar to my case, but right at the moment i am in developments, i was a geek in my old school, everyone hated me and i had no friends at all. Now i am in college, people love me here, also i have so much confidence with HBs now that they check me out without me even noticing them, for eg i was on the bus today and this HB8 just couldnt stop staring and me, obviously she wanted abit of flrting but i was having none of it, hahah.
Hvm, i will stop gloating now, sry guys, the good cycle is here, instead of turning from a AFC to a jerk, just turn into a DJ.
 

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you lot are insecure, immature weeners, especially that Bvbidd, he says the same sh.it every day of his boring, virgin life
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hey man read the rules, it says we couldnt flame new DJs, so follow it man, this site is for giving tips and help for AFCs, so you shouldnt diss them like that, its out dude.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey man read the rules, it says we couldnt flame new DJs, so follow it man, this site is for giving tips and help for AFCs, so you shouldnt diss them like that, its out dude.
fair enuf but he does do my head in and he probably is a virgin...
 

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Yeah but some of my best friends are virgins, even those who get tons of girls. So first of all that is no indication of their knowledge, and secondofall you are the bigger tool for giving people **** because you think they are virgins, some people choose to be virgins. So show a little bit of respect towards other people's values. Even though I love sex, I never enforce it on my virgin friends as a social norm to have sex.

--Mission
 
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