"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The TRUTH About "Spinning Plates" (The Good and the BAD)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3agle 3yes said:
The fact is you still took my statement out of context...I only meant it in the instance I mentioned in that post.
you said women can't change your life, you are wrong, that isnt out of context

3agle 3yes said:
If you want to look at it your way EVERYTHING is life changing all the way down even to the most minute thing.
thats what life is man, it can always change over an incident

3agle 3yes said:
And even if I were to use my statement in your context, women STILL won't change your life.
tell that to men who were wrongfully accused by a woman if their life didnt change

3agle 3yes said:
Regardless of what a woman does to you, it is the CONSEQUENCE of that action that is life changing not the women THEMSELVES. So actually YOUR statement is false.
wtf? the woman did it, those were her actions that did it, you are an idiot.


3agle 3yes said:
Many women don't know what the f*ck they're doing anyway.

That's just the excuse of someone who can't read the signs.

A woman who wants to start sh!t with men she just met, would have so many red flags it would practically be a red bloc.

I've come across women that have wanted to start sh!t, yes, but it was laughable at best...and in my experience anything so serious is rare.
no offense man, but you have no experience, no fu*kin clue what you're talking about. nobody is going to take you seriously, have a good day :moon:
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
Okay, so you've read the above and thought to yourself: "All that sounds great, so what could be BAD about spinning plates?!"

What I've learned is, spinning plates is meant to be used as a development tool. If you get into the practice of spinning plates for too long, though, some very negative things can start to develop...

1. Spinning plates places you in the mindset that you WONT hold onto a woman long-term.
Fixed that for ya. :up:


Harry Wilmington said:
2. Spinning plates put you in the mode of always, looking for the "bigger, better" deal.
So what?


Harry Wilmington said:
3. Spinning plates now allows you to become comfortable with cheating on your girlfriend/spouse later on.

Hope this helps!
And?

All the "downsides" only apply to the woman. The man benefits. So what's the problem?

I see no problem.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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