"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The truth about height

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sfalexi

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Originally posted by FrankWank
Why dont you short guys wear heels?
I do. But only on Saturday nights. You can find me on the corner of 33rd and 4th . . . . . :eek:
 

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Haha, the height thing has always been weird for me, I guess. I'm 5' 10", so I'm not tall, but not really short. But I couldn't date a chick taller or even as tall as me. I'm not sure why.
 

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taller guys usually do win out.

Height will not stop you from getting most women if your a MDJ. However in the case of two equally skilled MDJs batting for a woman the taller will usually win out because of the Darwinistic properties of heighth as well as social conditioning which romanticizes the tall, dark, and handsome criteria.

I'm sure there are some PHD who would love to discuss their theses regarding this topic and you could probably catch a lecture at your local university. (All I ever remember was the Watson and Crick double Helix seminar)
 

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When I see a guy with a girl taller than him I think two things, the guy's a DJ or the girl is ugly. We all know girls would prefer a tall guy over a short guy. So if the girl is attractive, the short guy must be a real DJ. I just think it is awkward to see a height difference of a foot between any couple. This morning I saw a guy, probably 6'1'' holding hands with a 5'2'' girl. The guy would have to kneel down just to give her a kiss.

Caesar
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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