The true nature of "Scarcity Mindset" that I've just discovered

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Right at this moment, there are at least 03 chicks in my rotation, one of them a pilates teacher, one of them a thick office chick, the last one a teacher and avid gymer.

But, at the same time, I am still having what you call a pedestalized version of ANOTHER chick, who has been haunting me since last Christmas. I talked about this one before here:


So, back to what I was trying to say:

I'm having plates, not one, but 03, but I am still simping over this one chick aka pedestalizing her. Even though the level of intensity is now not as intense as last December, but still, I am still, even on a daily basis, dreaming/wishing/hoping of fvcking her.

Pathetic, I know. I'm being honest. Because what else would I be here for?

Why?

Because, I am indeed having Scarcity Mindset.

"How can you have Scarcity Mindset if you have three pvssies to fvck right now?" some of you might ask. Wait, please hear me out.

I am indeed NOT HAVING SCARCITY MINDET over AVERAGE and ABOVE-AVERAGE GIRLS.

But I DO FVCKING HAVE SCARCITY MINDSET for ALL GIRLS WHO ARE ABOVE THAT LEVEL.

In mere "level" number: One of my plates is 5.5, one is 6, and one is 6.5 (the pilates teacher). So they have a combined "power level" (lol) of 18, which again gives all of them an average level of 6.

You got what I'm saying? All three chicks I'm banging right now are only 6 at BEST.

BUT the chick that I'm simping for, in terms of looks, intellect, elegance, and everything else is AT LEAST 7 to 7.5 in comparison to those three.

TL;DR Version:

1. I'm having Abundance Mindset with level-6 chicks but totally having Scarcity Mindset with chicks whose levels are HIGHER than that.

2. Even a redpilled dude with Game can still fall victim to Scarcity Mindset WITHOUT even knowing it.

3. The KEY takeaway is POWER LEVEL. A HB6 might not give you Scarcity Mindset but a HB8 might make you lose your mind easily.


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Right at this moment, there are at least 03 chicks in my rotation, one of them a pilates teacher, one of them a thick office chick, the last one a teacher and avid gymer.

But, at the same time, I am still having what you call a pedestalized version of ANOTHER chick, who has been haunting me since last Christmas. I talked about this one before here:


So, back to what I was trying to say:

I'm having plates, not one, but 03, but I am still simping over this one chick aka pedestalizing her. Even though the level of intensity is now not as intense as last December, but still, I am still, even on a daily basis, dreaming/wishing/hoping of fvcking her.

Pathetic, I know. I'm being honest. Because what else would I be here for?

Why?

Because, I am indeed having Scarcity Mindset.

"How can you have Scarcity Mindset if you have three pvssies to fvck right now?" some of you might ask. Wait, please hear me out.

I am indeed NOT HAVING SCARCITY MINDET over AVERAGE and ABOVE-AVERAGE GIRLS.

But I DO FVCKING HAVE SCARCITY MINDSET for ALL GIRLS WHO ARE ABOVE THAT LEVEL.

In mere "level" number: One of my plates is 5.5, one is 6, and one is 6.5 (the pilates teacher). So they have a combined "power level" (lol) of 18, which again gives all of them an average level of 6.

You got what I'm saying? All three chicks I'm banging right now are only 6 at BEST.

BUT the chick that I'm simping for, in terms of looks, intellect, elegance, and everything else is AT LEAST 7 to 7.5 in comparison to those three.

TL;DR Version:

1. I'm having Abundance Mindset with level-6 chicks but totally having Scarcity Mindset with chicks whose levels are HIGHER than that.

2. Even a redpilled dude with Game can still fall victim to Scarcity Mindset WITHOUT even knowing it.

3. The KEY takeaway is POWER LEVEL. A HB6 might not give you Scarcity Mindset but a HB8 might make you lose your mind easily.


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Above everything we are humans with emotions.

You cant become an emotionally dead bag and just be completely abundant with everything.

I know everyone from here no matter how good they are with women you will end up finding one chick that will blow your brains out and your whole game-bible abundance what ever you want to call it will vanish within seconds.

Of-course you can re-calibrate after that and slap your self in the face and get your sh1t together if something goes sideways but don't hang up too much on why you have a scarcity or not. This is the part of having emotions and being human.

Just make sure you don't f1uck up and you control ur-self.

I'm dating a 9 now. In my eyes she is a 9.

Hot body, hot face, she has PHD smart and funny. Sex is good, could be better.

My game is tight. But even i sometimes over-text for no reason. I get complacent and in minutes i get my sh1t together.

Sometimes i get too available and within days I re-calibrate. She is just too damn hot, my d1ck can't handle it sometimes. And I have to have the discipline to understand when my brain is going sideways.

This excites me that a chick is able to do that to me but at the same time I feel the beta behavior crawling in the back of my head from my past and i always end up shaping my frame within minutes. This is what a hot chick can do to you.
 
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1. I'm having Abundance Mindset with level-6 chicks but totally having Scarcity Mindset with chicks whose levels are HIGHER than that.
I guess your 'problem' is that you expected the scarcity mindset to vanish when you'd have abundance, but you're dissatisfied with just banging women 'below your level', while your own 'level' is unstable at best. You feel unworthy to date the more attractive women, because you don't feel equally attractive. Maybe because you've been going after 'low hanging fruit', women you found moderately attractive enough to bang but nothing more.

When you have true abundance of attractive women seeking your company, you stop rating women on a scale and just respond when they are attractive to you. I've been around highly attractive women enough to not be distracted by their beauty. Since the women I have sex with are all highly attractive to me, I'm not actively 'approaching' women, but I'm open to meeting new attractive women for k!nk.
However, since I have abundance, I tend to stay rather aloof and that attracts women because they are used to guys trying to pick them up and they can feel their desperation and need.
 
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