"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The True DJ?

dragonrb

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This is an opinion thread. I'm curious to see what everyone here thinks would constitute someone to be considered a "true DJ." Have you ever seen someone in action and thought to yourself, "Wow! He's a TRUE DJ!"? What was it they were doing that made you think that?

I've been reading the DJ Bible and it seems that having a passion plays a big role in the life of a DJ. Is a true DJ someone that simply fills their life so much with a passion or multiple passions that nothing really even matters much to them anymore, including women? And then suddenly, women become secondary (or even further down the list of priorities) to the DJ's passion. Do you think that the passion is the most IMPORTANT thing for a DJ to have?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wavejams007

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A true DJ doesn't need to think he is a DJ, he just is. He knows how to handle many situations without losing his cool. He knows when something is worth the effort, and when it sure the hell aint, something htat the rest of us struggle with constantly. You should do a search on this topic, cuz i am pretty sure it has been talked about before.
 

LesaneCrooks

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a Don Juan gets p*ssy, and knows he can get it whenever he wants. Think your a Don Juan now?
 
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