"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Trouble With The So Called Gurus !!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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sOME GUY WROTE he saw this hb outside the bank the other day
he walked up to her and said " what s the main course today ?

HE ASKED A COUPLE MORE QS
the girl was uninterested

that s the problem like guys of that sort
they go out on the street , see this beautiful chick and start talking to her good for them but i doubt they manage to do it on a consistent basis

well sorry guys but sometimes i am at a loss for words i am not always inspired i got my off days

i want to score on a regular basis no time to ask myself if i am on good form or can improvise a convo just on the fly

so i have my 4 PRESCRIPTED Qs and i never fail to get my digits

i may improvise between each Q ADD ON a bit of humor and tease her but i need a framework to make things happen

IT IS THE ONLY WAY

interviewers ( LARRY KING ) do it teachers do it!!!!!

unless you got an inborn gift of the gab there s no other alternative

imagine you been working all day at the office you get out of the office in a daze See miss AMERICA WALKING IN YOUR DIRECTION I GUESS U RE TOO TIRED TO IMPROVISE A CONVO SO TIME TO USE YOUR SCRIPT


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I act a a kamikaze i throw myself at the first woman i see and ask her where the station is like a bat out of hell
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Great

so waht are the four questions?:rolleyes:
Seriously this thread would have more value if you posted them instead of just bragging

Just my thoughts....
 

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ALPHAROMEO said:
sOME GUY WROTE he saw this hb outside the bank the other day
he walked up to her and said " what s the main course today ?

HE ASKED A COUPLE MORE QS
the girl was uninterested

that s the problem like guys of that sort
they go out on the street , see this beautiful chick and start talking to her good for them but i doubt they manage to do it on a consistent basis
If your talking about what I posted in your other thread. You quoted it wrong.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168356

She was 19 and had a boyfriend, I found out later because she gave me her number. And I'm not a guru. As for your doubts, they are just that, doubts. Stop looking for someone to save you with a magic plan, just go out and do your thing man. good luck.
 

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4 Qs

THE 4 Qs
1 where is the station please ( with a townmap in your hands the congruent factor )
2 is there a restaurant there ?
3 is the food healthy in this town cos i ve read in one of our national newspapers that some people were infected by mad cow desease ( controvrsial )around here?

4 DO YOU THINK IT S BETTER TO EAT ON THE TRAIN OR IN THE CAFETERIA?
There are the 4 Qs for you !!!!

use them all the time

with a couple of NEGS
ill get back to the NEGS in my next mail
 
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