"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The trouble with China

LiveFreeX

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I thought I'd get out here and post this... for all those frustrated DJs in the West or anyone with an Asian Fetish, you need to get out here ASAP.

Here in China we have two types of guys: The guys who have a bit of knowledge surrounding women and the clueless AFCs. Fortunately/Unfortunately, here in China it is the norm for every single foreigner, AFC or DJ to be able to pick up 9s and 10s, simply because they are foreign.. It doesn't even matter where you are from. I have friends from New Zealand, Uzbekistan, Ukraine, America, England, South Africa, and even Nigeria picking up extremely hot women. Unfortunately, there are also a load of fresh university grad manginas, newly brainwashed by the feminist regime and out here preaching their bullsh1t. They seem to be much less successful with girls and are quite vocal about their displeasure but equate it to 'the exploitation of Chinese girls'. Why am I telling you about this treasure trove? I'm seriously sick of hearing their BS and I'd like to get a few like minded people over here before there is an epidemic of manginas flooding in to China.

I have found that the application of game works 1000x better here than in the West. Why? The rules are this: A Chinese man must own a house and car (in his mind) before he courts a lady. He must never approach a woman in public and will almost always get married to a highschool love. They will stay together for 6 months to 2 years before getting married and may only see each other on weekends or even once a year. They generally don't have sex until marriage. (Hence most being married in their 20s)

For the rest, they are completely oblivious as to how to meet women. The men are also bogged down by the fact that BOTH of their parents must approve of the woman and her wealth. Her family's wealth also factor quite heavily into the equation. So its extremely difficult for a Chinese man to meet a suitable woman.

Now you have the foreigners, who enter China, with no rules whatsoever. The Chinese girls prefer a foreigner simply because he doesn't have the hangups that many of the Chinese men are stuck with. The foreigner is likely on his own or independent of his family, makes his own decisions and doesn't care what financial bracket a woman belongs to. By default any foreigner here can pick up a woman with little more than a glance and a smile. I have never met another DJ here... I have however met several ultra smooth foreigners because their lays number in the 100s. I had sex with my gf on the third date... that is not unheard of for a foreigner but for a China man it's unbelievable. How do you do it without language? Point at the girl you like, smile, say "Boyfriend?", then hand her your cellphone and point to the number keys.

If you think Chinese women are just out for a green card, you are wrong. Most women don't want to leave China (forbidden by both family and countrymen) and would like nothing more than to be married to a man which doesn't automatically put them on the pedestal. There is something like 500,000,000 single women here in China so I'm not exactly worried about other men as their is simply NO competition for resources here.

Well I have to go... if you have any questions, post away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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3countriesPlan

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What city are you in? Im in SZ and I can see what you are saying. It is definitely like that in Shanghai and Beijing. Here, this is "Hustlaville" A lot of girls here are from the country so they are here to make money which naturally means getting with older guys who they can mack stuff and money off of. Lots of hookers in the bars too.. (not a close if it costs anything)This place is good for your game cause you can learn alot about their hustle and you'll be able to really understand some new concepts
 

Poonani Maker

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What the f. How much is a plane trip to China? Where do I sign up? (sarcasm) China is Communist. You could probably be jailed rather quickly in that country for doing something very small. Too risky man, but if you got balls to enter into an alien world, by all means. I'd imagine such a venture would be costly, with little to no po0n unless you lived over there, and I guess the only way to Live over there would be to be an English teacher like my friend was. And, yes, he looked very sexed imo, and he knew quite a bit of Chinese after 2 years over there, but to me, he looked Way hardened from that experience. You have to be Tough to endure a very foreign land like that. They are All about Work. That's Communism. Marxism is Work is your value as a human, nothing more. I've dated native/dual citizenshipped/visa'd Asian women (mostly off of POF), one a financial analysts here, (who asked me to "quit my job" and join her company Huh? I say...) and I'd have to quit my job if I moved to China. Not gonna do that, no way. Also, the last POF Asian chick I dated, yes, she was Easy and tall for an asian (at 5'10") very bizarre, she said that in China that Everybody there, everything there is soooo competitive, just insane WORK demands, way harder than America. She acted like I would not survive over there, and I believed her (unless, I was some English teacher).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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