My god, it all makes sense now.
I was out drinking with some chick I know (OUaT she was interested, but I got a little too trashed, f-ed it up, and got LJBFed, oh well), and she was still trying to tell me how "cute" I am. Cute with a "but".
"You're so cute. I mean, you have all these cute features (... rambles on for a while..), BUT, you're this big, scary guy (goes on again about how intimidating I am...).".
This clears things up, like. Girls (pretty much everybody), are either always getting out of my way, doing their best to avoid me, or telling me how "adorable" I am. ("You're so cute!", "You have the cutest baby face!", "You're like a big teddy bear!", blah blah).
It's like, whenever I get intimate like with a girl, it always gets so far, then they get kinda weirded out and say no. Is it that I look like a little kid, and they can't take me seriously, or are they afraid of me? Or both?
What the hell can I do to change this? It's not my clothes. I can wear anything and make it work (I had to do some modeling when I was a little kid. My face goes with everything.), and girls usually compliment me on my style. Should I try making myself look more thug like, or should I quit the powerlifting thing and start eating like a normal human being?
I was out drinking with some chick I know (OUaT she was interested, but I got a little too trashed, f-ed it up, and got LJBFed, oh well), and she was still trying to tell me how "cute" I am. Cute with a "but".
"You're so cute. I mean, you have all these cute features (... rambles on for a while..), BUT, you're this big, scary guy (goes on again about how intimidating I am...).".
This clears things up, like. Girls (pretty much everybody), are either always getting out of my way, doing their best to avoid me, or telling me how "adorable" I am. ("You're so cute!", "You have the cutest baby face!", "You're like a big teddy bear!", blah blah).
It's like, whenever I get intimate like with a girl, it always gets so far, then they get kinda weirded out and say no. Is it that I look like a little kid, and they can't take me seriously, or are they afraid of me? Or both?
What the hell can I do to change this? It's not my clothes. I can wear anything and make it work (I had to do some modeling when I was a little kid. My face goes with everything.), and girls usually compliment me on my style. Should I try making myself look more thug like, or should I quit the powerlifting thing and start eating like a normal human being?